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Kishore Jha

On 27th September, 2021 a young woman named Ankita, from Delhi, tweeted to the Minister of Women and Child Welfare Mrs. Smriti Irani to seek her help.

 Her tweets read, “@smriirani Ma’am, my in-laws are not giving me access to my two year child for three months now. I have followed all processes. Please help this mother.”

“@smritiirani They are using all influence to shut me up. How can a child survive without his mother? He needs me. I need him.”

“@smritiirani You are my last hope. I can’t bear the aspersion cast on my character just because they want to keep the child. Please help. They can’t legally keep a two year old away from mother”

Ankita informed our team that on 16.09.2021, she was heckled and abused by a mob of 25 men comprising of her in-laws at Bawal Police Station in Rewari District of Haryana. The lady travelled from Delhi to Bawal to meet her minor son and the heckling and abusing was allegedly done at the behest of her in-laws to dissuade her from meeting her child. The child had been allegedly kidnapped by Ankita’s in-laws and is being held captive in Bawal since last few months. The mother of the child has been running from pillar to post to get the authorities to help her reunite with her 2 year old son, but her in-laws have allegedly refused to let her even see the child. 

Ankita, had visited the Bawal Police Station along with her aged father, after the intervention of the Superintendent of Police, Rewari and the Delhi Commission for Women. However, when she reached the Bawal Police Station, her husband Rahul Adlakha, father-in-law Anil Adlakha, and brother-in-law Mayank Adlakha gheraoed the Police Station along with about 25 men. The police claimed they were overwhelmed by the show of force of the crowd, and could not take any action to disperse them. The in-laws and the gathered men allegedly surrounded the lady inside the Police Station and threatened her with dire consequences if she continued to make attempts to get her child back. After spending close to 10 hours at the Police station, and being emotionally and physically harassed by her in laws and the mob, the lady returned to Delhi without being allowed to meet her son. 

In a written complained to the SHO of Bawal Police Station, Ankita has also complained that during her visit at the Police Station that day, one of the 25 men physically assaulted her and asked her to leave Bawal immediately. The lady has lodged a complaint in this regard and claims no action has been taken yet on her complaint. However, she is awaiting the Police response in the matter and is hopeful of swift action against her molester and the other members of the unlawful assembly. 

The lady alleges that she was brutally beaten up, abused and abandoned on the road by her in-laws in Bawal during the course of her marriage. She also claims that her husband and her father-in-law are both alcoholics and womanisers with no moral values. Earlier in 2021, the minor child while staying with his mother in Delhi, was forced out of his house by henchmen sent by the in-laws and was forcibly taken to Bawal. The lady  filed a separate complaint with the Delhi Police but is awaiting action in this regard too.

While Ankita hasn’t been able to see her child for the past few months, she has full faith in the judiciary and the police, who she believes will help her unite with her minor son, “My 2 year old minor son is being unlawfully kept away from me for several months. A child as young as mine requires his mother for caregiving. How is it fair to take his basic right away? How is it fair to take away my basic rights as his biological mother?”, said a teary eyed Ankita. She also added, “First a woman has to go through an abusive marriage. And then when she finds the courage to walk out, she has to fight the patriarchy to get back her son! How many more fights is a woman expected to fight? I am the victim here, but instead of any support, my battles are growing by the day!”

The reporter contacted Ankita’s husband Rahul Adlakha. He shared a long complaint that he has made to various authorities. In the complaint he has made several remarks on Ankita’s character and that she had misbehaved with him and the members of his family. He believes the child will be better off with him. The Womb also contacted SHO Bawal. He  said he will follow the due process.

While processes may take time, Ankita requests for support, cooperation and swift action from authorities especially from the Police and Women Cell hoping that the bond between a mother and child will soon be restored.

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The Womb Team spoke to Ms. Prachi Mehta, who is an internationally accredited Mediator and is the Founder of TAG – the ADR Group, a venture which provides mediation services to clients. Prachi started her career 15 years ago in New York ad a lawyer and became a dispute resolution expert. After graduating from St. Stephen’s College, Delhi she studied law from University of Delhi and the New York University. She is certified by Harvard Law School for mediating complex disputes. She has also worked as a visiting Researcher at the Stanford Law School to research and develop mechanisms for Indian industries and companies to effectively use mediation for resolution of disputes. Ms. Avani Bansal spoke to Ms. Prachi Mehta about her experiences with Mediation, how couples involved in family matters can approach Mediation before court based litigation. She also spoke to her about Prachi’s career trajectory and interesting experiences she had along the way. Join us for this riveting conversation. Do subscribe to our channel for more videos.

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राजेश ओ.पी.सिंह

एक अध्ययन के मुताबिक कूड़ा बीनने वालों में 80 फीसदी संख्या महिलाओं की है और ये सब महिलाएं दलित समुदाय से सम्बन्ध रखती है, जैसे कहा जाता है कि सारे दलित तो सफाई कर्मचारी नहीं है परन्तु सभी सफाई कर्मचारी दलित ही है। भारत में कोई महिला या पुरुष अपने काम की वजह से सफाई कर्मचारी नहीं है बल्कि वह अपने जन्म के कारण सफाई कर्मचारी है, भले ही वह ये काम करना चाहती/चाहता हो या नहीं । यहां यह सब जाति और पितृसत्तात्मक सोच के कारण है।

आधुनिकता व तकनीक से परे कूड़ा बीनना आज भी देश का सबसे कम वेतन वाला और सबसे ख़तरनाक काम है, जिसमे लगभग 600 सफाई कर्मचारी प्रतिवर्ष मृत्यु को प्राप्त होते हैं।

सफाई करने वाली महिलाओं में लगभग 39 – 41 फीसदी वो महिलाएं हैं जिनके पति सफाई करते समय मर गए, उनके देहांत के बाद इन्हें अपने पति के स्थान पर बड़ी मुश्किलों से ये नौकरी मिली हैं । इन महिलाओं में केवल 0.03 फीसदी महिलाओं ने ही 10वीं तक की पढ़ाई की है। जब इन्हें नौकरी पर रखा जाता है तो क्या नियम व शर्तें होएंगी इसके बारे में इन्हें अनपढ़ता की वजह से कुछ भी जानकारी नहीं दी जाती और इससे इन महिला सफाई कर्मचारियों से कम वेतन पर ज्यादा घंटे काम करवाया जाता है। जिसका इनके स्वास्थ्य और परिवार पर प्रतिकूल प्रभाव पड़ता है।

सफाई करने वाली महिलाओं का जीवन विभिन्न चुनौतियों को एक साथ झेलता हुआ चलता है, सबसे पहले इन महिलाओं को नौकरी करने के साथ साथ अपने घर के सारे काम करने पड़ते है वहीं दूसरी तरफ घर की आजीविका भी इन्हे ही चलानी होती है,और बच्चों को पालना ,उनका ध्यना रखना ये सब कार्य भी इन्हे करने पड़ते हैं। क्यूंकि अधिकतर महिलाओं के पति या तो मर चुके होते हैं या फिर जो जीवित होते हैं उनमें से लगभग सभी के सभी अपनी कमाई का 65-70 फीसदी हिस्सा शराब व अन्य नशों में खर्च कर देते हैं ,इसलिए परिवार की सारी जिम्मेदारियां महिलाओं पर ही रहती है।

इंडियन एक्सप्रेस की रिपोर्ट के मुताबिक कोरोना काल में दिल्ली नगर निगम में मरने वाले कुल 94 कर्मचारियों में आधे से ज्यादा संख्या (49) सफाई कर्मचारियों की है। अब इन परिवारों में सारी जिम्मेवारियां घर की महिलाओं पर आ गई है अब या तो इस काम को वो खुद करेगी या फिर उनके बच्चे। यदि वो खुद करना शुरू कर देती है तो निश्चित रूप से बच्चों पर ध्यान देना उनके लिए बहुत मुश्किल होगा, इस से बच्चों का पढ़ाई छोड़ना और अन्य कार्यों में संलिप्त होने की सम्भावना ज्यादा है या यदि बच्चे अपने पिता के बाद सफाई का काम शुरू करते है तो निश्चित रूप से उनकी पढ़ाई रुक जाएगी। ये व्यवस्था बहुत लंबे समय से चली आ रही है, अब इसमें सुधार होना चाहिए क्योंकि बिना किसी सुधार के इनकी आने वाली पीढ़ियां भी अनपढ़ रह कर इसी काम में संलिप्त रहेगी। हालांकि सरकार ने कोरोना में मरने वाले इन सफाई कर्मचारियों के परिवार को एक एक करोड़ रुपए और एक नौकरी देने का वादा किया है परन्तु ये अभी एक दो लोगों को ही मिला है। 

अब प्रश्न ये उठता है कि इतनी बड़ी संख्या में सफाई कर्मचारियों कि आकस्मिक मृत्यु क्यों हुई? इसके पीछे सबसे महत्वपूर्ण कारण ये है कि कोरोना के समय में जब हम सब लोग घरों में बैठे थे, तब इन सफाई कर्मचारियों को अपना जीवन दांव पर लगाकर प्रतिदिन सफाई करने के लिए घरों से निकलना पड़ रहा था, वहीं 93 फीसदी सफाई कर्मचारियों ने माना कि सरकार की तरफ से उन्हें ना तो मास्क मिले, ना सेनेटाइजर और ना ही पीपीई किट। प्रोटेक्शन के बिना कार्य करते हुए कोरोना संक्रमण ने इन्हे अपनी चपेट में ले लिया जिस से बड़ी संख्या में इन्हे अपने जीवन से हाथ धोना पड़ा है। 

टाटा इंस्टीट्यूट ऑफ सोशल साइंस ने एक रिपोर्ट में दावा किया है कि सामान्य तौर पर एक सफाई कर्मचारी की मृत्यु 60 वर्ष की उम्र से पहले ही हो जाती है, अर्थात सफाई कर्मचारियों कि औसत उम्र 60 वर्ष से कम है। इसके पीछे मुख्य कारण ये है कि सफाई के क्षेत्र में आधुनिकता के समय में भी तकनीकों का अभाव है और इसके साथ साथ सफाई कर्मचारी को अपने पूरे जीवन गंदी हवा में सांस लेना पड़ता है, ऐसे क्षेत्र जहां से आम महिला या पुरुष गुजरे तो भी उन्हें अपनी नाक बंद करनी पड़ती है, परंतु उस बदबूदार जगह पर इन सफाई कर्मचारियों का जीवन गुजरता है। गन्दी हवा में सांस लेने से इन्हे सांस के अनेकों बीमारियों से संक्रमित होना पड़ता है। इसके साथ साथ हमने पाया है कि प्रत्येक शहर या गांव के किसी कोने में इन लोगों को झुगी झोंपड़ियों में अपना जीवन व्यतीत करना पड़ता है, जहां पर ना तो पानी की व्यवस्था होती है, ना बिजली की और ना ही शौचालयों की। गन्दा पानी पीने से इन्हे फेफड़ों और पथरी की समस्या से जूझना पड़ता है। शौचालय ना होने कि वजह से इन्हें घंटो घंटो तक प्राकृतिक दवाब की रोकना पड़ता है, जिस से पेट की बीमारियों का खतरा निरन्तर बना रहता है। इन कर्मचारियों में महिलाओं की स्थिति और भी ज्यादा नाज़ुक है ,क्यूंकि इन्हे ज्यादा कार्य करने की वजह से व सही खान पान ना होने से और काम उम्र में शादी और मां बन जाने से इनके शरीर में कमजोरी रहती है, जिस से ये बहुत कम उम्र में ही बूढ़ी और असहाय दिखने लगती है। 

जिन महिलाओं के पति नहीं है उन्हें अपने दिन के लगभग 16 से 18 घंटे कार्य करना पड़ता है। एक सफाई कर्मी महिला सुबह 5 बजे उठ कर खाना बना कर काम पर निकल जाती है जहां सात बजे से दस बजे तक सफाई करने के बाद 10.30 बजे तक घर पहुंचती हैं इसके बाद घर की सफाई, कपड़े धोना, दोपहर का खाना, नहाना आदि में उन्हें 4 बज जाते हैं, इसके बाद कुछ शाम को भी सफाई करने जाती है तो उन्हें कम से वापिस आकर रात का खाना बनाने में 9 बज जाते है और 11 बजे तक सब काम निपटा कर सो पाती हैं, इस थकान भरे दिन में वे अपने बच्चों और खुद के स्वास्थ्य का बिल्कुल ध्यान नहीं रख पाती और उसका नुकसान उनकी पूरी पीढियों को भुगतना पड़ रहा है।

इसके लिए सरकार द्वारा कोई विशेष उपबंध और तकनीकों का प्रबन्ध करने की आवश्यकता है ताकि इन सफाई कर्मचारियों की स्थिति में सुधार आए और इनके बच्चे स्वस्थ रह सकें और उन्हें किसी मजबूरी में पढ़ाई ना छोड़नी पड़े।

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Author: Radhika Ghosh

On 1st August 2021, a 9-year-old Delhi girl was found to be allegedly raped, murdered and cremated without her family’s consent. The Delhi Police Crime Branch inspected the spot at the crematorium in Delhi Cantonment.

The incident gained national attention when hundreds of protestors were seen to have gathered and marched holding signs outside the Nangal cremation ground. They demand speedy justice for the minor and death penalty for the accused rapist.

The nine-year-old minor daughter of rag pickers hailing from southwest Delhi went to a crematorium near her house to fetch some drinking water for her father. She never returned. Around 6 pm, her mother was informed that a 55-year-old priest, Radhe Shyam wanted to talk to her. Upon going there, the mother found her daughter lying dead, allegedly all drenched, face paled, wounded all over, and her tongue blue and lips black.

Upon questioning, the priest informed the girl’s mother that the cause of her death was electrocution. When the grief-stricken mother wanted to see her body and inform the police regarding the death, the priest panicked and asked her not to involve the police. He said that the police would take her to the hospital for an autopsy where her organs would be sold off, and a legal case would go on for many years for which the family was not financially equipped.  He rather offered money to stay silent on the matter and asked her to go away. The priest and his associates locked the gates of the crematorium thereafter and convincingly cremated the minor’s body despite her mother protesting. The helpless mother could only sight her daughter’s funeral pyre flames ablaze alone from a distance.

Infuriated neighbours and the girl’s father on reaching the spot later, witnessed the priest confess raping the 9-year-old after which the police took the accused to custody. The Delhi district police arrested the priest, Radhey Shyam (55), and three of his associates namely- Kuldeep (63), Laxmi Narain (48) and Saleem (49). Gang-rape, murder and sexual offences have been registered against the four accused men.

Activists, lawyers, politicians have been visiting their homes intending to console the parents and try hard to fast-track the hearing of the case.

Dalit groups have been facing such atrocities all over the country. Especially sexual offences against women and children. It is not uncommon to see them struggle for justice despite strict anti-rape laws in India. Speculating the recent heinous crimes on the Dalit class of the country, social equality and justice has many years to fight before it sees the light of day.

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Avani Bansal

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I had only seen the Madhubani style paintings in Dilli Haat Market in Delhi. I was blown away with the intricate design, bold use of colours and the selection of the themes that felt almost surreal. So, when I got a chance to visit Madhubani, a small city, 26 kms away from Darbhanga in eastern Bihar, I was delighted beyond words. Madhubani is the origin place of Madhubani paintings, also known as Mithila paintings.

As per a legend pertaining to Hindu mythology, this art form first started when Lord Janak asked the villagers of Madhubani to paint their houses, and celebrate the wedding of Lord Rama and Sita. Interestingly, several Madhubani artists till today depict the birth of Sita, the wedding of Lord Rama and Sita and several others Hindu gods and goddesses in their paintings. Historically, Madhubani was part of the Mithila kingdom, which was a prominent political and cultural center. Also known as Videha kingdom, the rulers of this place were called ‘Janakas’. Vedic literature including Brahmanas and Brihadaranyaka Upanishad mention Lord Janaka as a great philosopher king of Videha. As per Valmiki’s Ramayana, Sita, the wife of Lord Rama is said to have been discovered in a furrow in a plough field, in the Mithila region, and therefore is considered to be a daughter of Mother Earth (Bhoomi). She was discovered and adopted by Lord Janaka, and that is how Madhubani gets its historical legend and connection to Janaka and Sita. 

So I set out to meet the current day Madhubani painting artists and just by asking around the town, got to meet Dulari Devi, who is a Padmashree nominated Madhubani artist. We got her number and called, and she very kindly sent someone to guide us to her place. As soon as we entered her street, we saw the home of a Padmashree awarded Mahasundari Devi, who Dulari Devi later informed us was an inspiration for all the Mithila artists in the town and her legacy is now carried forward by her family members. 

Dulari Devi herself lives in a small house. She tells me that her family belongs to the fishermen community. She used to accompany her mother to the farms and for fishing. Then one day she went to help in a local woman’s household with the household chores. This lady was an artist. When Dulari Devi saw her in action, she was immersed in the world of art. She felt like she could forget the humdrum of her life, the challenges of the meagre income her parents earned, and found a canvas on which to depict all that she observed as a child. In the earlier days, they couldn’t afford paper or paint, so she would use sticks to draw on the wet clay floor of her house. From then, whenever she found time, she kept practicing her art. She drew whatever of the village life she observed, such as farmers, children, fishes etc. 

I asked her, why do I see so many fishes or fish motif used in Madhubani paintings. She told me that’s because fish is considered sacred in their culture and also a good omen. I couldn’t but help see the connection to the fact that a lot of current day Madhubani artists also belong to the fishermen community. 

I asked her how much she earns from these paintings. Earlier, we sold them for too low prices – may be 30 Rs. for a painting, she said. But now people seem to value us and our art. The artists sell their paintings to government center, which also then act as a sales center for these paintings, or sometimes directly to the consumers as well. Each painting can take different time to complete, but Dulari Devi says that she was always very fast as compared to others. She could complete some big and complex paintings in 4-5 days of intense work. When someone in the village gets a big purchase order, other artists come together to help complete it.

Is it a women only art, mostly – I asked her. Earlier it was so, she says, but now, even the men of the village make these paintings. Her own nephew is very good at it, she says proudly. I was a little surprised that the Madhubani paintings are not just drawn on papers but also on the walls of the house. She tells me that originally people started painting on the walls itself, it was much later that women used paper to paint. Infact, in 1970s, there was a severe drought in the area, and so the government started a programme, encouraging local women to paint on paper and canvas and sell their work. That’s how Mithila paintings took a commercial form.

She shows me a book published by Tara Publication ‘Following My Paint Brush’ which is a depiction of Dulari Devi’s own story through Madhubani paintings for children, acting as an inspiration for young children to understand the journey of an artist.

I found the book extremely creative and apt for young children. Dulari Devi also shared that a French person had done extensive research on the Mithila painting artists and published a book in French, in which she too finds a mention. 

What is your favourite painting – I asked Dulari Devi. She showed me a painting where rural women are shown to go for polio vaccination of their children. In the queue, she tells me, are both rich and poor women. The poor woman is crying, while holding her child in her arms, thinking that she doesn’t have the money. That’s when another woman informs her that polio is for everyone, without any discrimination between the rich and the poor, and so her child too would be given the vaccine. Dulari Devi tells me that this painting was sold in America for 50,000 Rs. This painting reveals the discrimination in medical services in the rural areas. 

She shows me another of her paintings, depicting women in the rural areas going to vote on election day. In yet another painting, a group of women get together to talk to a man who’s has been harassing them. 

What I love about her paintings, is the story they tell, especially when seen or heard from Dulari Devi’s perspective. She is an artist par excellence, who is not just painting pretty, but reflecting the struggles of women in rural villages even today. This is what makes the study of this evolving art form interesting from a feminist perspective. 

Mithila paintings are not just an art form, but a creative expression of the men and women, who express their happiness – depicted through painting joyous occasions, weddings, music etc.; their everyday lives – depicted through farming and fishing scenes; their ecosystem – depicted through the animals, turtles, birds, and also their civil and political life, along with religious beliefs. These paintings, I realized are a world of their own, and a powerful medium of communication from one generation to another, and also from people living in one part of India to the world, about the stories of their life. While the artist in Dulari Devi definitely has all my respect, what touched me even more is how she insisted that we have lunch before leaving. On informing me, that we have an important meeting to make to, she felt obliged to offer us something and not let us leave empty handed. She gifted me a beautiful dupatta with Madhubani painting on it and with tears in her eyes, bade us farewell. It is her humane side, which will remain me with me a for a long time. With all the international acclaim coming her way, and the recognition being received by Madhubani art form, the sad truth is that most of the artists in the village live a very economically modest life, with little free time to be able to give their best shot to their art form. Many do it as a source of livelihood, but few have the luxury to take their art form to the next level. 

Can we put our money where our mouth is and pay attention that the policy of our country recognizes the true value of artists across the country? Can we have a minimum support programme for indigenous artists across the country? Can we have distribution channels that these artists don’t have to sell their art for a much lesser price but get what they truly deserve? These are the questions, I left with and hugged a warm hug to Dulari Devi, with a promise to meet her again.

If any of you reading this, wish to support her in anyway, I will share the details and you can directly reach out to her. 

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