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By Dr. Elsa Lycias Joel

As we celebrate Buddha purnima (on 26th May, 2021), I am reminded of a great quote — ‘Women are the sun of the family.’ With the sun shining bright and beautiful in Tamil Nadu and DMK’s long engagement with women’s welfare programmes, be it micro credit or several assistance schemes for women, women are hopeful. Beyond the good and bad of the poll promises, women-centric government schemes have undoubtedly changed lives. 

On 14 October 1956, at Deekshabhoomi, Nagpur, over 20 years after he declared his intent to convert to Buddhism, Dr. Ambedkar along with 365,000 of his followers  decided to embrace Buddhism. He is perhaps one of the biggest champions of women empowerment to have existed in India. His roar, “I measure the progress of a community by the degree of progress which women have achieved” is still heard all over. The Hindu Code Bill  challenged the basic patriarchal foundation. Women’s empowerment in the Buddhist period, even before 25 centuries, carried a contemporary significance because empowerment would bring enlightenment irrespective of gender and thus enable humanity as a whole to tread the path of righteousness, truth, peace, progress, prosperity and justice. Going by history, Buddhism is known to have flourished in Tamil Nadu in two phases, firstly in the early years of the Pallava rule 400-650 AD, and secondly in the Chola period mid 9th to the early 14th century AD with centres of Buddhism in Kanchipuram, Kaveripattinam, Uraiyur and Nagapattinam. At some  point of time, Buddhism declined in Tamil Nadu after contributing a great deal to the enrichment of Tamil culture and spiritual consciousness. 

Teachings and practices of Buddhism assert that in the woman lies the womb of progress. Progressive societies owe a lot to this ideology that enabled women to have control over their own life.  To give women full freedom to participate in a religious life inspite of being criticized by the prevailing establishment is a task and Buddhist teachings are halfway there.  People still live to tell the history untold in textbooks. That is, people who resisted the imposition of Hinduism’s varna system were marginalised. Existential issues facing marginalized women are subjugation and arbitrariness masquerading as cultural practices. Lakhs of people are embracing Buddhism in various parts of India going on to prove the relevance of the faith in today’s society. Almost 87% of the 8.4 million Buddhists in India are converts. According to an IndiaSpend analysis of 2011 Census data, female literacy among Buddhists in India is higher (74.04%) than the total population average (64.63%). 

India being the birthplace of Buddhism, this religion is part of India’s spiritual heritage. Indian women must be proud to know that the core Buddhist doctrine and its salvific path are essentially inclusive and do not discriminate between genders as much as the major religion of India. That’s why women were admitted into the monastic order. Today, centuries after Buddha advocated the right of women to be ordained, I’m not surprised to know that the status of nuns has declined. Sadly, deep sexism exists in religious institutions although the founder of the religion made sure the influence of Buddhism should be such that women must always have fair play. In a country where women are reminded in no uncertain terms that this is no ideal country for women — within or outside the home, it’s not unusual to know that nuns are placed at an inferior position as compared to monks like in every other religion. That nuns should speak after the monks have spoken, sit behind the monks in rituals and ceremonies, cannot hold the highest positions in any ceremony and bow down to a monk who has just been initiated shows how inferior the women have been placed in Buddhism too.  Above all, the religious assertion that a female nun can never reach Buddhahood though she can become an arhat is farcical. Modern scholars are unsure if these rules even go back to the times of Buddha at all.  

Many a time I wonder if a religion that went beyond times to lay the essential foundations for eradicating discrimination towards women has patterns of misogyny in the form of Eight Garudhammas or  it is the cultivation of the mind (bhāvanā) that ultimately uproot the innate conditioning of all genders. There were times when nuns of Ladakh had no food to eat and a few even served their own families as domestic help. Despite the region being home to 28 nunneries, nuns never had a designated place to pray or live until 2012. Chattnyanling nunnery built by the Ladakh Nuns Association with the help of local villagers came as a much needed relief. Before the champions of women’s emancipation who advocated educational facilities and opportunities for women to make them efficient and active units in the process of religious, socio-economic and political development ushered in, women were considered inferior in India. And men seemed to have influenced the compiling, editing and interpreting of the religious doctrines. That’s why we see shades of misogyny in Christianity, Islam, Sikhism Jainism and Judaism and a whole lot in Hinduism. This inferiority issue is sure to have a greater impact in the Indian society for a long duration of time. Whatever be the Buddhist ethos, it’s effect will be negated in varying degrees by masculine superiority, by misinterpreting at least. I wish I could ask Buddha the reasons behind his initial refusal to grant the request of his aunt and foster mother, Prajāpati Gautami and her women to become monastics three times. Blame it on societal pressure and emotional barriers. After all, interacting positively with society and it’s prevailing norms helps a religion to thrive, doesn’t it!  About the 85 extra rules for the nuns and eight special rules  influencing the position of women in Asian societies that are slow to evolve, one must know that the teachings of the Buddha were only committed to writing long after his demise and whether the accounts had any veracity is still debatable. 

Leaders of Buddha’s Light International, Taiwan have publicly rejected part of the Eight Garudhammas and other rules and teachings that imply that women are inferior to men. Before and after the pandemic hit, the world has come to know Taiwan fares better with a woman at the helm of affairs. Fortunately, Buddhism has found its way everywhere. In Sweden organized Buddhism has its roots in the 1970s and traditions flourish. Sweden has almost closed 82% of its gender gap. In highly modernized societies, deeply rooted Buddhist traditions have persisted, have been adapted to changing conditions, including only those which are necessary for an inclusive society and ignoring few writings of disciples prejudiced towards women. As the most trusted religion in New Zealand, Buddhism has in a way, directly or indirectly, contributed towards a rapid social and economic change wherein women are well treated and respected and  discrimination on the basis of gender is illegal. Examples are many. So, Buddhism is also like a seed. If it falls on good soil, then it produces a crop, yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown. 

Ideals of unconditional loving kindness and respect espoused by Buddhism will be relevant today if the gap between the ideal and practice is bridged with wisdom and nobility. Discriminatory practices and attitudes still exist in Buddhist spheres as doubts about the accuracy of the scriptures exist and misrepresentations are not clarified but viewed through the opaque prism of each culture as it spread across different regions. In India, monastic women are taking on key roles and with feminism gradually evolving, outdated religious prejudice and barriers are beginning to crumble. Virulent passages that present an ambiguous view of women must be ignored if not removed for Buddhism to flourish, so that more women walk the path of liberation to become arhats and to educate all about the consequences of discrimination. Around the world, an unacceptably large number of women are the victims of domestic violence, rape and even murder each year. Buddhism at its pristine and transformative core is genderless. It’s high time we promote any ethico-psychological system that facilitates the innate moulding of minds that makes social reforms a reality. On this Buddha Purnima, may we all reiterate the belief in Ahimsa (non-violence) and Karuna (compassion).  

To this day, religious scholars and feminists are trying to figure out what it was about that time or moment when Prince Siddhartha Gautama decided to leave behind his wife, Yasodhara, and son, Rahula to pursue enlightenment. 

Practicing an ideology/religion can sometimes be like maintaining, operating and flying a helicopter irrespective of  its design and manufacture. If someone decides to fly one, its design and manufacture doesn’t absolve the right minded aviator the responsibility of ensuring that safety and quality controls are given the highest priority. Just as insurance agencies must play a constructive role in support of better safety norms, religious leaders can choose what they profess or advocate for the betterment of humanity. Ultimately, it is the person who maintains/flies the machine, irrespective of the make, must ensure that the highest professional standards are adhered to at all times. Or don’t choose to fly it. 

May good seeds fall on fertile soil. May the dark, darker and darkest holes of religions shrink and disappear. Happy Buddha Purnima to all who practise, profess and appreciate the goodness of Buddhism.

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राजेश ओ. पी. सिंह

बाबा साहेब डॉ. भीम राव अंबेडकर ने कहा था कि “मैं किसी समाज की प्रगति, उस समाज में महिलाओं की स्थिति से नापता हूं” , पंरतु आजादी के सात दशकों के बाद भी हमारे समाज में महिलाओं की स्थिति बहुत दयनीय है और यदि महिला ‘दलित’ है तो उसे दोहरे शोषण का शिकार होना पड़ता है,एक जो सभी महिलाओं पर होता है, दूसरा जो दलित जातियों पर होता है।

भारतीय समाज में हालांकि दलित महिलाओं ने अपना लोहा मनवाया है, बात चाहे राजनीति की करें या प्रशासनिक सेवाओं की या और भी ए श्रेणी के पदों की तो वहां पर दलित महिलाएं अपने संघर्ष के दम पर पहुंची है।

परन्तु क्या इतने बड़े मुकाम हासिल करने के बाद भी इन दलित महिलाओं को जातिगत टिप्पणियों व जलीलता से छुटकारा मिला है? इसका जवाब है नहीं।

क्यूंकि दिन – प्रतिदिन ऐसी घटनाएं हमारे सामने आती रहती है, जहां पर किसी महिला का केवल इसलिए अपमान किया जाता है क्योंकि वह दलित है।

भारत में दलितों की एकमात्र नेता बहन कुमारी मायावती, जिन्हें विश्व की टॉप 10 शक्तिशाली महिलाओं में शामिल किया जाता रहा है, जो एक राष्ट्रीय पार्टी की अध्यक्ष है और चार बार भारत के सबसे बड़े सूबे उत्तर प्रदेश की मुख्यमंत्री रह चुकी है, को भारतीय संसद में एक मनुवादी सोच के पुरुष द्वारा असंवैधानिक और निम्न दर्जे के शब्द कह दिए जाते है,परन्तु उस पर कोई खास कार्यवाही नहीं होती और इसके साथ साथ उसके परिवार को चुनावों में भाजपा द्वारा टिकट भी दिया जाता है ।

वहीं वर्ष 2019 में आंध्र प्रदेश के ‘तांडिकोंदा’ विधानसभा क्षेत्र से दलित महिला विधायक “वुंदावली श्रीदेवी” को एक सार्वजनिक कार्यक्रम में जातिगत शब्दो से अपमानित होना पड़ता है, परन्तु उन स्वर्ण समाज के पुरुषों पर भी कोई कार्यवाही आज तक नहीं की गई।

ऐसी अनेकों घटनाएं दिन प्रतिदिन घटित होती रहती है, नेशनल क्राइम रिकॉर्ड ब्यूरो ऑफ इंडिया के आंकड़ों के अनुसार कम से कम 10 दलित महिलाओं के साथ प्रतिदिन बलात्कार होता है, और पिछले दस वर्षों में यह 44 फीसदी तक बढ़ा है। बलात्कार के कुल 13273 मामलों में से दलित महिलाओं के साथ होने वाले बलात्कारों की संख्या 3486 है, जो कि कुल मामलों का लगभग 27 फीसदी है, और ये केवल वे आंकड़े है जो प्रशासन द्वारा दर्ज किए गए है।

एक अन्य रिपोर्ट के अनुसार प्रशासन की जातिगत संकीर्णता, लापरवाही और भ्रष्टाचार की वजह से आधे से ज्यादा मामलों को तो दर्ज ही नहीं किया जाता।

“स्वाभिमान सोसायटी” नामक दलित महिलाओं व अंतरराष्ट्रीय महिला अधिकारों की संस्था ने अपनी रिपोर्ट में बताया कि दलित महिलाओं के साथ होने वाली सेक्सुअल हिंसा व अपराध के मामलों में 80 फीसदी अपराध सामान्य और स्वर्ण जाति के पुरुषों द्वारा किए जाते है।

केरल जैसे अग्रणी राज्य में 1971 के बाद 2019 के लोकसभा चुनावों में कोई दलित महिला सांसद नहीं बनी, इस से आसानी से आंदाजा लगाया जा सकता है कि दलित महिलाओं का प्रतिनिधित्व आज भी पुरुष प्रधान समाज में स्वीकार्य नहीं है।

भारत के सर्वश्रेष्ठ शिक्षण संस्थान दिल्ली विश्वविद्यालय के एक महिला कॉलेज में दलित सहायक प्रोफेसर को इसलिए क्लास लेने से मना कर दिया जाता है क्योंकि वह दलित है और दलित समाज के लिए समय समय पर अपनी आवाज़ उठाती है।

हालांकि सरकारों ने महिलाओं की स्थिति में सुधार करने के लिए नाममात्र के कार्यक्रम चलाए है और राजनीति में प्रतिनिधित्व देने के लिए स्थानीय सरकारों में एक तिहाई आरक्षण की व्यवस्था करी है, इसके बावजूद महिलाएं आगे नहीं बढ़ पा रही है क्योंकि इन आरक्षित सीटों से महिला को पद तो मिल जाता है परन्तु शक्तियां उनके पति या घर के अन्य पुरुष ही प्रयोग करते है।

राजस्थान जहां भारत में सबसे पहले पंचायती राज व्यवस्था लागू की गई थी, के जालोर जिले में नियुक्त ब्लॉक विकास अधिकारी जो कि एक दलित महिला है, ने पंचायतों में नवनिर्वाचित पदाधिकारियों की एक सभा बुलाई, इस सभा में महिला पदाधिकारियों के साथ आए पुरुषों को दलित महिला अधिकारी ने सभा से बाहर जाने का बोल दिया, बस इतने में ही वहां मौजूद क्षेत्र के पुरुष विधायक भड़क गए और गुस्से में उन्होंने न केवल दलित महिला अधिकारी को डांटा बल्कि साथ में असंवैधानिक शब्दों का प्रयोग करते हुए एक पुरुष अधिकारी को कहा कि “इस महिला को समझा लो वरना मैं इसे रगड़ के रख दूंगा” और विधायक यहीं नहीं रुके और अपने समर्थकों के साथ दफ्तर के बाहर धरने पर बैठ गए। यदि महिला अधिकारी दलित ना होती तो शायद उस पर ऐसी निंदनीय टिप्पणी नहीं होती।

इस घटना पर न तो राजस्थान सरकार ने, न ही राजस्थान के लोक सेवा आयोग ने और ब्लॉक विकास अधिकारी के मुख्य कार्यालय ने भी कोई कार्यवाही नहीं की ।

वहीं बात यदि महिला आयोग की करें तो यहां पर जातीय भेद स्पष्ट रूप से देखने को मिल रहा है, चूंकि महिला आयोग बात तो महिलाओं की करता है परन्तु शर्त ये है कि महिला स्वर्ण जाति से होनी चाहिए।

अर्थात महिला आयोग ने भी इस दलित महिला अधिकारी के साथ हुए अपमानित व्यवहार पर कोई कार्यवाही की मांग नहीं की है।

यदि उपरोक्त संस्थानों और आयोगों द्वारा उचित और दृढ़ कार्यवाही की जाती तो प्रदेश में एक संदेश जाता जिस से मनुवादी स्वर्ण पुरुषों के अमर्यादित व्यवहार पर कुछ हद तक नियंत्रण लगता परन्तु ऐसा नहीं हुआ।

ऐसी घटनाओं से महिलाएं और खासकर दलित छात्राएं जब देखती है कि इतने बड़े ओहदे पर पहुंचने के बाद भी पुरुष और स्वर्ण मनुवादी समाज उन्हें कितनी गिरी हुई नज़रों से देखता है और उनका हर स्तर पर अपमान करने से बाज नहीं आता इससे न केवल उनका मनोबल गिरता है बल्कि उनमें नाकारात्मकता भी पैदा होती है।

इस प्रकार जब सब कुछ दलित महिलाओं के खिलाफ है, कोई भी संस्थान उनके समर्थन में नहीं है तो दलित समाज को इस पर गंभीरता से सोचने की ज़रूरत है कि कैसे ऐसी निंदनीय घटनाओं को रोका जाए और यदि ऐसी घटनाएं होती है तो कैसे सरकार पर उचित कार्यवाही का दवाब बनाया जाए। ताकि दलित छात्राओं में मनोबल बढ़ाया जा सके और उन्हें जागरूक व मजबूत करने के लिए प्रेरित किया जा सके।

अब प्रश्न ये है कि जब हमने हाल ही में अपना 71 वां गणतंत्र दिवस मनाया है, मौजूदा केंद्र सरकार दलितों की हितैषी होने के दावे करती रही है, अम्बेडकर के सपनों का भारत बनाने की बात करती रही है, इसके बावजूद पुरुष प्रधान समाज में दलित महिलाओं की ये स्थिति है, इसके आलावा राजस्थान जैसे प्रदेश में जहां कांग्रेस सरकार महिला सुरक्षा व महिला सम्मान की बातें करती है वहां महिलाओं की स्थिति और भी ज्यादा बुरी है अर्थात इतने दशकों में भी समाज में पुरुषों की प्रधानता जारी है और महिलाओं को आज भी दूसरे दर्जे पर रखा जा रहा है और दलित महिलाओं को स्थिति का अंदाजा तो उपरोक्त अनेकों घटनाओं से लगाया है जा सकता है कि किस स्तर पर उन्हें शोषित और जलील किया जा रहा है।

इस समाजिक समस्या के समाधान के लिए हमें सभी को मिल कर प्रयास करने चाहिए।

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A lot has been discussed and debated about the negative impacts of the Covid-19 pandemic on women but the contribution of women in fighting the pandemic has found very sparing mention. This is despite the fact that women health workers are the beating heart of every healthcare system which is aiding the recovery of Covid patients across the globe.

For several decades, women have played a vital role in the global healthcare workforce as nurses, midwives, community health workers and doctors. In some countries 90% of nurses are women. Although women are still less likely than men to reach senior positions in healthcare professions, recent data shows a trend reversal which ignites some confidence of rising gender parity in the Healthcare sector.

It is heartwarming to note that women represent close to 70% of the global healthcare workforce. Several studies estimate that women in health contribute 5% to global gross domestic product (GDP) (US$ 3 trillion) annually, out of which almost 50% is unrecognized and unpaid.

In 2017, almost half of all doctors in Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) countries were women. Thirteen OECD countries exceeded gender parity for doctors in 2017, including Slovenia (63.0%), the Lithuania (69.4%), Estonia (74.0%), and Latvia (74.3%). France (44.5%), Germany (46.6%), the United Kingdom (47.6%), and Sweden (48.0%) were nearing gender parity among physicians. However, women still only made up one in five (21.0%) doctors in Japan. Globally, women represent the majority of nurses and midwives. The Americas (86%), Europe (84%), and the Western Pacific (81%) are regions with the highest proportion of women among nurses.

In Canada, women dominate the health fields in Higher Education. In 2017, women made up more than 78.7% of post-secondary graduates in health and related fields. In the past four decades, women’s share of medical degrees has substantially increased. In contrast to 2017, when only 12% of women earned MD degrees in Canada, there has been a significant spike until 2018 with 54.5% of women achieving the same feat.

In India, women are responsible for 70-80% of all the healthcare services being provided. Women healthcare providers can play an important role in educating society to recognize their health and nutrition needs. Women professionals and empowerment of women at all levels are required for improvement of the health and nutrition structure in India.

In terms of Gender Career Satisfaction, on average, women in healthcare report high satisfaction with their careers (75 percent versus 71 percent of men). They find opportunities aligned with their passions and can adapt their careers over time. Women in healthcare tend to be more happier about their careers compared with men in the same field.

Largely, the gender gap in promotion rates in healthcare, unlike in many other industries, is narrowing. Both women and men report asking for raises at the same rates, but women in healthcare say they are slightly more successful in achieving positive outcomes. Women in healthcare reported receiving more of what they requested in compensation negotiations more often than what men did. Both women and men report asking for raises at the same rates, but women in healthcare say they are slightly more successful in achieving positive outcomes. Women in healthcare reported receiving more of what they requested in compensation negotiations more often than what men did.

According to a research done collaboratively by Lean In and McKinsey, healthcare appears to be one of the best industries for working women on several counts. A broad industry that includes drug and medical-device manufacturers, as well as service providers and payers, healthcare surpasses other industries in female representation.

On the flip side, it is an uncomfortable fact that health systems are currently subsidized by the unpaid work done by women and girls delivering care to family and others in their communities. If only women were able to participate in the economy equally, it would result in nearly an estimated $160 trillion increase in global GDP or a 21.7% increase in human capital wealth.

24 million of the 28.5 million nurses and midwives globally are women. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to be physicians and specialists than women. In addition, more men reach leadership positions, leaving women under-represented in senior, higher-paid roles. However, recent studies reveal an increasing participation of women in highly paid occupations in health, a trend likely to continue over the next 20 years.

The report “Delivered by women, led by men: A gender and equity analysis of the global health and social workforce”, co-produced by WHO and Women in Global Health, confirms that women health workers are concentrated into lower status, lower paid and often, unpaid roles, facing harsh realities of gender bias and harassment.

It is unfortunate that women lead only 19% of hospitals. When it comes to companies in the healthcare industry, women only hold 13% of CEO roles and 33% of senior leadership positions. However, despite all the roadblocks, some women have made to the top of the ladder with their talent, remarkable contributions and sustained efforts. Some noteworthy names include Emma Walmsley (CEO of GlaxoSmithKline and the first woman to lead a global pharma company), Gail K. Boudreaux (president and CEO of Anthem), and Laura N. Dietch (president and CEO of BioTrace). Frances H. Arnold, who in 2018 became the fifth woman to win the Nobel Prize in Chemistry is yet another example of women in healthcare who have gained worldwide recognition for her achievements. Women are the primary consumers and decision makers in the healthcare market, and they make up almost 50 percent of the workforce: much of their advancement and leadership in the field rests on those facts.

Since women work in the frontline in providing medical care and perform some of the risky jobs, they have an increased risk of contracting infectious diseases. In the United States, the Centers for Disease Control reports that, as of April 2020, 73% of healthcare professionals who tested positive for COVID-19 were women. Exposure to infectious diseases poses a high psychological burden for women healthcare workers. A study of healthcare settings in China during the COVID-19 outbreak found that women workers reported elevated levels of stress, anxiety, and depression.

Despite all the risks taken by women, disparity continues to pervade the industry when it comes to monetary compensation. Women in healthcare are paid Less, on average, than their male counterparts. Women physicians and surgeons made $0.67 to every $1 earned by their male counterparts in 2018. Women in healthcare support occupations, which include home health aides and nursing assistants, made $0.83 for every $1 their male counterparts made in 2018.

Gender equality needs to be looked at holistically in the healthcare sector – Policies, effectiveness of programs initiated by the government, and employee experiences must be taken into consideration to promote diversity and inclusion. While the trends clearly show that significant progress has been made over the last few decades, much remains to be done.

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Boris Johnson, Prime Minister of United Kingdom is all set to promote access to education for girls in Kenya, calling it “is one of the smartest investments we can make”.  Since his time as Foreign Secretary, Mr Johnson has argued that widening access for education for girls is a highly-effective way of driving development in some of world’s poorest countries, in places where girls had often been at risk of missing out on school. The PM will participate in a live study hall connect-up with schoolchildren in Kenya on march 13, 2021 to encourage world pioneers to put resources into training, supporting the UK’s aspiration to get 40 million additional young ladies into school in the following five years. 

He is scheduled to visit a school in the UK with Julia Gillard, previous Australian PM and Seat of the Worldwide Organization for Training, and address President Uhuru Kenyatta at a school in Nairobi as a component of the Associating Homerooms program. This visit comes ahead of the joint UK-Kenya Global Education Summit in London in July, which aims to raise $5 Billion over the next five years for the vial work of Global Partnership for Education (GPE).

The UK reports £55 million for another program to drive essential research into education reforms, , turbocharging endeavours to get young ladies into school and learning. The What Works Hub for Global Education will advise governments across Africa and Asia on the most impactful and financially savvy approaches to reform educational systems and support female enrolment. 

UK’s G7 Presidency has a key part in improving girl’s access to education and is at the heart of global efforts to build back better from the pandemic. Putting resources into schooling helps lift communities out of poverty and shields young girls from early marriage and forced labour. 

Prime Minister Johnson said: 

“Supporting girls to get 12 years of quality education is one of the smartest investments we can make as the world recovers from Covid-19. Otherwise we risk creating a lost pandemic generation. Across the world there is a vast untapped resource – girls whose education has been cut short or denied altogether, who could be leading efforts to pull their communities out of poverty. I’m going to be working throughout the UK’s G7 presidency to ensure leaders invest in those girls and boost children’s life chances around the world.”

Julia Gillard, Chair of the GPE, said: 

“COVID-19 has worsened the global education crisis and hit children in lower-income countries the hardest, with life-changing consequences for millions. Now, we are at a decisive junction. When the world builds back from the pandemic, ensuring that every girl and boy has the opportunity for a quality education is the single best investment we can make for a more sustainable, peaceful and resilient future.”

The Covid-19 pandemic has caused an unprecedented worldwide educational crisis, with 1.6 billion youngsters out of education all around the world at the height of school terminations. It has additionally intensified the hindrances to tutoring that young girls as of now face, including poverty, gender-based violence and child-marriage. 

The Global Education Summit this July, co-hosted by the United Kingdom and Kenya, is a critical opportunity to fully fund the Global Partnership for Education and help transform education systems to make them more equitable and effective.

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By Dr. Elsa Lycias Joel

One day I decided to keep aside so many things that mattered a lot to me. This was no small step for me, a free-spirited woman. Somehow I was made to believe that I’m ‘Born Free’ because it was from Joy Adamson’s that my father picked my name. A state level TT player, classical dancer, handful of extracurricular activities, NCC camps, rough and tough cousins, stint with a National daily- all these and more convinced me I was self made to rise and shine, go far and wide. Two little girls changed my course of life. Today I’m a humble stay-at-home mother, for the reason that parenthood began on a good note. I love girls, wanted girls and my wish came true.

Turning back the clock I remember…

My little girl was not into sharing, a zealous guardian of her toys and games, stuffed animals and many more which of course she never even played with. But when another child showed an interest in, say, one, tiny stuffed kangaroo, my darling snatched it away. I used to wonder if I should browbeat her into civility. Very often, I did not. Finally I sent her to a play school because I liked the name of the school ‘sun shine’. And of course Lauren loved it there for the toys and snack hour. I filled her snack box with healthy stuff she hated and forced her into giving and taking thereby mutating genes. Or a fixation of a selfless gene! Today, I’m so proud to know that she is called the kindest in her class, a just and selfless human in her play group and a rascal among bullies.

My daughters are no shrinking violets. What more can be so gratifying to a mother who kept aside everything to raise two girls to more than they could be. One evening, at the park I let my little one handle a brat for herself even though I had the urge to end anything or anybody who bothered my children. As I pretended to ignore her she just pushed him away a little harder and he fell. Then, I called out to her. Giving me her cherubic smile she poked him with her toe just to let him know what was on her mind. I shuddered. But in this world, especially in India where the powerful and crooked love to bang into people and knock their molars loose, my little one learnt her first lesson to strike back. And I didn’t intimidate her.

During story time, my daughters did all the talking. I don’t really care where from and how did the idea that men utter 7,000 words a day versus women’s 20,000 come from as long as I hear my daughters talk sense. An occasional low murmur is all they expected from me. When I tried reading children’s stories to them, often they interrupted saying,” I know this story. Animals and trees never talk. They can’t”. This certainly interested me and I thanked God for merry little souls who were natural raconteurs, always good for a couple of laughs and have grown better over the years. Making up new stories everyday was tough but today I’m an author. ‘Perfect Endings’ for children was a result of their complaints “I know this story”. However as a proud mama what I believe is this: if my daughters tell a story, they are the best storytellers. If they paint, they do receive accolades. No gallery or critic needs to sanction them. This is what I call “job satisfaction” with my job as a mother.

‘Food time’ that always seemed to be a ‘not so good’ tussle turned into fun time after Barbara appeared on the scene. So, just to make the little fussy eater eat, Lauren tuned herself to eat all that I called healthy. My daughters’ taste buds not only got used to my recipes but the fact that nothing satisfies their hunger as much as my food does make me very proud.

When both of them were in the right mood, I coerced them into believing that love can change almost anything for good. They believed that love is a boomerang and took it in their own style just right for their age. So beautiful was their transformation, from toddlers to girls and into the swag teens with ideas taking different shapes on strong foundations I laid. To them, as of now, love is peace. My girls are becoming known as the best peacemakers in their small circles.

I hate liars, especially ones who know the art better than I do. For so long I thought my girls never knew what a ‘lie’ was. If I have brought up two benevolent liars, then this world would definitely be a better place for them. Benevolent lies can also be ‘channels of peace’.

Remember, the mutation and fixation mentioned in the second paragraph. My children are still hell bent on convincing me that if we love someone they should be made happy even if our happiness is or isn’t closely tied to theirs. When they played games, they were willing to lose to benefit their friends, to avoid a quarrel or to establish peace that passeth all understanding. Trying to figure out if this attribute would help them in the future I still chew down my nails.

Much alike other kinds, my girls loved to shop. Not just for them but for their playmates too. Then, with a shallow pocket, it was really tough to fight back my urge to take up a job.

Just as my mother points out the trees I had climbed and the hedgerows where I had gathered wildflowers as a child, I remind my girls of their favorite places, people and things. When they respond appropriately, I know I’m playing the role of a mother very well, much to my surprise.

Whenever we went for a stroll, I yearned for the Venti- Boreas, Notos, Eurus and Zephyr. The winds ballooning their frocks out and whipping their hair into tangles was a wonderful sight I loved to watch with equal joy.

And as my angels make new friends, I take it on me to remind them of their first friendship and cherish old friends and memories. An indulgent mom! I’ll do it knowing that someday, somewhere my girls would learn to make time for friends, trust and rely on them and as grey haired women gather with all their friends and stockpiled memories.

As a three year old Barbara used to go around the house searching for her dad paying no heed to Lauren who tried to explain in all 3 languages she knew. The idea that papa is out to make money to feed and clothe her never was never convincing. In the process of letting her know the reason behind papa’s unavailability I learnt my valuable lesson- that for a company or a firm, I’m just a worker but to my children I’m an idol, sometimes god. I promised myself that my prime job would be to pay attention to every little detail of theirs and be available till they spread their wings and fly away. Today, as teens they talk their hearts out with nil inhibition about everything under the sun. It’s not long ago when my girls believed that my kiss helps wounds heal faster and holding my pinkie warded off bad dreams.

I’ve got something most other working women miss out as parents. If I wish to, I know I can make money. If I don’t get to visit another country in the next ten years, I hope there is always another chance. But these few precious years will swiftly go by. No titles can replace the times when my daughters hug me to say, “I love you”. No money can replace the times when they lean their head on me and fall asleep. My intuition that I’m not their best keyboard or dance teacher is always right but my children consider me their most special teacher because they enjoy learning with me than with anybody else. Their preference to choose me over their TT coach reflects not only their trust and confidence but assures me that I’ve not compromised on the factors that build trust. The various ways they flaunt me as the best mom who can cook, dance, sing, write, articulate well and is game for anything boosts my self-esteem. “Mother hen” as I’m often addressed by my mom, “Helicopter mom” as called by my friends, “cosseting grandkid” as my late grandmother admonished me, I don’t know what fits me right because different situations demand a different you. Ultimately, motherhood is an honour and a blessing.

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“By Their Faith”

by Elsa Joel

By Elsa Lycias Joel [A Poem To Honour Our Nurses]

More than just chosen
A messenger of faith
In times of dejection
There’s hope, she saith
Therefore, she comes by
To lift the broken
And never will deny
Love, a beautiful token.

Awakes a resting mind
She holds herself together
Great courage to find
To be that lifesaver
Never weigh the risks
Shoo! spirit of fear
Rises like a phoenix
Diligent in her warfare.

Against the invisible enemy
In her combat outfit
Architect of her destiny
She holds no regret
Leaving behind her beloved
At home, a fortress
She sees uncertainty ahead
No mission so beauteous.

Fear of losing out
Creeps up on her
Yet, the most devout
Lover, sister, daughter, mother
She waves and leaves
Two hesitant steps forward
Heavy sigh, she heaves
Stoicism, the good word.

Teary eyes so blurred
Nevertheless, a clear vision
Silent cries go unheard
To triumph, her determination
Ardent prayers guard her
As she treads mindfully
Compassion makes her stronger
Cést la vie, hopefully.

Thus sang the Nightingale
For all to know
With joy we hail
Chords, high and low
All around plaintful sadness
Go yonder, find solace
Embrace songs of gladness

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The Bakarwal Woman

by Avani Bansal

By Avani Bansal

Have you ever imagined living a nomadic life, with few possessions, travelling from one place to another, calling different places your home and being completely home at all of them? Last winter, around this time, I met a Bakarwal woman in Srinagar, Kashmir. Bakarwals are a nomadic tribe in the Pir Panjal and Himalayan mountains who reside in Kashmir. The term ‘bakarwal’ comes from ‘bakara’ – goat, sheep or cattle and ‘wal’ or ‘wala’ which refers to ‘one who takes care of’.

When you travel to Kashmir, you see many bakarwals enroute taking their animals which include mostly goats, cattles and sheeps, led by a bakarwal (and usually a dog) at the front, with another bakarwal herding them from behind to ensure that the animals walk in a line. The bakarwals have to travel long distances to ensure that their animals are well fed.

I approached a Bakarwal settlement with slight hesitation, driving on the confidence of the local who accompanied me. He explained in local Kashmiri language that I wanted to speak to the women folk and the women were only too happy to find someone to chit-chat with. They looked at ease, opening the little they had to me, offering me chai that winter afternoon, while their children played carefree around.

“Yahan pani nahi aata?” (Doesn’t water enter this tent?), I asked. “Water-proof hai par thoda sa kabhi-kabhi” (It is water-proof but a little sometimes), she said. While she spoke in mixed Pahadi and Hindi, my friend did some translation.

“School jate hai” – (Do these children go to school?), I asked. “Nahi, par pass mein padne jate hai.” She said that while the children don’t formally attend to schools, someone does teach them nearby in home-tuition. Looking at their humble homes, I didn’t have the courage to ask much but I mustered courage to say “mushkil nahi hota, jagah badalna?” (Isn’t it hard to change places for you every now and then?’. ‘Nahi, ab to aadat ho gayi hai’ (We are used to it now), she said quite simply.   

“Aapka din bhar kaise katta hai” (What does your daily schedule look like?), I asked. And she explained how their day begins early, then they take the animals for grazing, milk them, do the household chores, get sticks/wood to light fire, fetch water – sometimes from a far off place and then cook for the evening and settle down. Her day had the busyness one wouldn’t crave for and yet a simplicty which was charming. She explained that her family has a permanent house in Rajouri, a district in Jammu, where Gujjars and Bakarwals form the majority Muslim population. She explained that they go there once a year, when it starts snowing in Srinagar – thus stressing that this nomadic life is a choice and also something they have been doing through generations. Their children, especially girls get married young, mostly amongst the Gujjars and Bakarwals but sometimes also with Kashmiris. In the little time I got to spent with them, I could already see, how little girls took care of their siblings, fulfilling almost a motherly role, while another girl walked the sheep, while a third one – the youngest – played carefree with a ‘dupatta’.

Their houses reminded me of the ‘tent’ game I played with my own siblings and friends when we were young, turning a big table into a tent and decorating it from inside. To see these tents as actual houses of people left me with few words.

Looking straight into my eyes – she asked “Aur aap kya karte hai?” (And what do you do?) I explained that I am a lawyer. To which she followed up quickly – “yahan kab tak hai?” (So when are you here till?) I said I have to leave soon. My friend remarked how I could settle in Kashmir forever, with a smile. We both smiled looking at each other.

The simplicity of this interaction, her deep look, her openness, her warmth, and above all her offering me tea, when she had precious little made it one of those unforgettable memories for me.

Sitting under a hill, with chinar trees looming in the backdrop, the beauty of this woman struck me. Her life to me seemed so light and floating that it was hard for me to decide whether to romanticise it or overthink the hardships that come with a choice like that.

I couldn’t hold myself from asking her – “Do you know about Art. 370?”. She just nodded her head to suggest she didn’t have a clue. I thought so but I didn’t want to assume.  

What gave me peace perhaps is a certain contentment that she seemed to have – be that by acceptance of her fate or an attitude of respecting what she had. Either ways, my thoughts travel to her this winter – as they will perhaps for many winters. She may be on another hill range, facing tough conditions and waking up to a harsh cold winter morning. I hope that she maintains that smile and peace on her face amidst all this and a part of me also hopes that she too thinks of me once in a while – knowing our lives are so different yet so related. Also beyond all the debate on Art. 370 and the future of Kashmir, what I think most of when I think of Kashmir, are the people of Kashmir – their love, warmth and simplicity and the Bakarwal woman I met was a true epitome of that.

इंसान से बड़ा और कुछ नहीं (Nothing Is Bigger Than A Human Being)

और इंसानियत से बड़ा कोई धर्म नहीं (And No Religion Is Bigger Than A Humanity)

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