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By राजेश ओ.पी.सिंह

मशहूर लेखक शिव कुमार बटालवी ने महिला शक्ति के लिए कहा है : नारी आपे नारायण है, हर मथे ते तीजी अख है, जो कुज किसे महान है रचिया, उस विच नारी दा हथ है। अर्थात हर महान पुरुष या स्त्री की सफलता के पीछे किसी ना किसी महिला का हाथ है।

ऐसे ही अनेकों विद्वानों ने महिलाओं की शक्ति के बारे में लिखा है पंरतु इस सब के बावजूद सदियों से ही महिलाएं अपनी पहचान के संकट से जूझ रही है, जैसे भवन के लिए सबसे आधारभूत चीज़ ईंट है वैसे ही मनुष्य के लिए “पहचान”। परन्तु फिर भी महिलाओं की स्थाई पहचान नहीं है, ये बदलती रहती है। यहां केवल पहचान ही नहीं बल्कि रहना सहना, खाना पीना, रीति रिवाज, देवी देवता तक समय अनुसार बदलते रहते हैं।

हम बात कर रहे हैं कि एक महिला को शादी के बाद अपना गौत्र क्यों बदलना पड़ता है? और ये केवल भारत में ही नहीं बल्कि पूरे विश्व में हो रहा है। विकसित, विकासशील या अविकसित कोई भी देश इस से अछूता नहीं है। इसमें अमीरी गरीबी, जाति, रंग आदि किसी का कोई भेद नहीं है अर्थात यदि कोई लिंग से महिला है तो ये निश्चित है कि शादी के बाद उसका गौत्र बदल जाएगा। जन्म से लेकर युवावस्था तक जिस गौत्र या पहचान के लिए उसने संघर्ष किया ,जिस गौत्र या पहचान पर उसे गर्व था बस केवल शादी कर देने से उसे वो गौत्र और पहचान छोड़नी पड़ती है।

हम देखते हैं कि दुनिया के सबसे विकसित देश इंगलैंड की सबसे मजबूत प्रधानमंत्री मारग्रेट थैचर शादी से पहले मारग्रेट हिल्डा के नाम से जानी जाती थी, परंतु इनके पति थैचर परिवार से थे तो शादी के बाद इनके नाम के आगे से हिल्डा गौत्र (पहचान) गायब हो गया और थैचर गौत्र जुड़ गया,

ऐसे ही अमेरिका में हिलेरी क्लिंटन शादी से पहले हिलेरी डियान रोधम के नाम से जानी जाती थी परन्तु शादी के बाद इनके पति क्लिंटन गौत्र के थे तो इनके नाम के आगे भी क्लिंटन लग गया ।

भारत में इंदिरा नेहरू का इंदिरा गांधी बनना, ऐश्वर्या राय का ऐश्वर्या राय बच्चन बनना, करीना कपूर का करीना कपूर खान बनना भी इसी प्रकिया का परिणाम है। यहां हम बहुत ही मजबूत और प्रगतिशील महिलाओं की बात कर रहें हैं जिनकी विश्व में अपनी एक अलग पहचान है परन्तु इन्हे भी अपनी पहचान शादी के बाद बदलनी पड़ी है। ऐसा क्यों हो रहा है? क्यों एक पुरुष को कुछ नहीं बदलना पड़ता वहीं एक महिला को अपना घर, माता पिता, गौत्र, पहचान आदि सब कुछ बदलना पड़ता है?

पुराने समय में माना जाता था कि एक लड़की जैसे ही अपने पिता का घर छोड़ती है वैसे ही उससे अपेक्षा की जाती है कि वह अपनी पहचान , यादें , सपने, संबद्ध सब कुछ त्याग दे क्योंकि उस समय एक महिला पूर्ण रूप से पुरुष पर निर्भर थी परंतु ये उस समय भी ग़लत था कि केवल निर्भरता की वजह से उसे अपना आत्मसम्मान खोना पड़े और अब जब महिलाएं हर क्षेत्र चाहे आर्थिक क्षेत्र हो या सामाजिक में आत्मनिर्भर हैं तब भी उसे ये आजादी नहीं मिल रही है,इससे साफ होता है कि निर्भरता वाली अवधारणा सरासर ग़लत अवधारणा थी जो महिलाओं को बरगला रहा थी।

कुछ पुरुष विद्वान मानते हैं कि ये प्यार और समर्पण का चिन्ह है, ये व्यक्तिगत पसंद ना पसंद का मुद्दा है परन्तु हमारा प्रश्न है कि ये केवल महिला के लिए ही आवश्यक क्यूं है? जबकि हम देखते है की शादी एक बराबरी का रिश्ता है, जिसमे दोनों एक दूसरे को सम्मान करते हैं, इसलिए जब रिश्ता समानता पर आधारित है तो सब कुछ छोड़ना महिला को ही क्यों पड़ता है।

ऐसे अनेकों उदाहरणों से समझा जा सकता है कि कैसे महिलाओं को अपनी पहचान बदलनी पड़ती है और विद्वानों ने समय समय पर इसे सही ठहराने के लिए अनेकों उदाहरण दिए है परन्तु ये सरासर गलत है और इसका सबसे महत्वपूर्ण कारण है “समाज की पितृसत्तात्मक सोच” । प्रत्येक समाज में पुरुषों का वर्चस्व है और जिनका वर्चस्व होता है उनकी पहचान को कभी कोई संकट नहीं आता, संकट आता है तो उन्हें जिनका वर्चस्व नहीं है या जिनका वर्चस्व कमज़ोर है।

एक महिला अपने बच्चे को 9 महीने अपनी कोख में पालती है, फिर उसके जन्म के बाद भी उसे पालने में ज्यादा मेहनत और भागदौड़ महिला को ही करनी पड़ती है परन्तु जैसे ही बच्चा जन्म ले लेता है तुरंत उसे उसके पिता की पहचान मिल जाती है, जिस महिला ने उसे पैदा किया है वह महिला उसे अपनी पहचान नहीं दे पाती क्योंकि उसकी खुद की कोई स्थाई पहचान है ही नहीं, उसके पास जो पहचान है ये या तो उसके पिता की है या उसके पति की। जब उसे अपनी मां को पहचान नहीं मिली तो कैसे वो अपने बच्चे को अपनी पहचान दे सकती है।

ये पहचान का संकट सदियों से बना हुआ है, परंतु इसे अब दूर करना होगा और महिलाओं को भी स्थाई पहचान प्रदान करनी होगी ताकि वो भी सारी उम्र अपने पहचान पर गर्व कर सके, उसके लिए जी सके, उसके लिए लड़ सके। और ये सब समाज में पित्त्रस्तत्मक सोच को ख़त्म करके ही किया जा सकता है। इसलिए हमें हर कदम पर पितृसत्तात्मक सोच पर वार करना होगा और महिलाओं को इस बारे में और जागरूक करना होगा ।

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By Neha Bhupathiraju 

At a World Mental Health Day event at National Institute of Mental Health and Neurological Sciences (NIMHANS), Karnataka’s Health & Family Welfare Minister K. Sudhakar expressed his disappointment at the “paradigm shift in thinking” that women choose to stay single and childless. 

“(I’m) sorry to say this, a lot of modern women in India want to stay single. Even if they get married, they don’t want to give birth – they want surrogacy. So there is a paradigm shift in our thinking which is not good.”  He also said that western influence is the reason Indians also choose to not live with their parents. 

Social media is flooded with anger at the Minister’s bizarre remarks. A day after his remarks, he issued a clarification that he “had no intention to single out women”. “Through my address during the World Mental Health Day program at NIMHANS, I intended to send across the message on how our Indian family value system can address the mental health issues that we are facing today”. He also alleges that those remarks were only a part of his 19 minutes speech and are being taken out of context. 

His remarks are rather disappointing coming from the Health & Family Minister. The underlying principle behind (even his clarification!) is the notion that women are expected to be flag-bearers of the value system. It’s not uncommon for the word ‘modern’ to be used in a derogatory fashion – when modern often means, especially in a feminist context, somebody who stands up for themself or makes a choice about their own body. When will we stop vilifying those who dare to breakfree from the shackles of binary notions?

Women, not just in India but around the world, especially in US give a variety of reasons why they may choose to be single or not have kids. While some fear lack of support, some simply enjoy the independence. A lot of women have seen their mothers sacrifice their own lives to raise them up, a choice that they may not prefer to make. So the question is – “why should anyone except a woman or a couple in question, decide what’s right for her or them?” Well, the health minister certainly should not. This incident is also a reminder as to why representation matters and why we need women in decision making, otherwise there would be no recourse to laws, policies and opinion that are fundamentally androcentric.  

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By Dr. Elsa Lycias Joel

One day I decided to keep aside so many things that mattered a lot to me. This was no small step for me, a free-spirited woman. Somehow I was made to believe that I’m ‘Born Free’ because it was from Joy Adamson’s that my father picked my name. A state level TT player, classical dancer, handful of extracurricular activities, NCC camps, rough and tough cousins, stint with a National daily- all these and more convinced me I was self made to rise and shine, go far and wide. Two little girls changed my course of life. Today I’m a humble stay-at-home mother, for the reason that parenthood began on a good note. I love girls, wanted girls and my wish came true.

Turning back the clock I remember…

My little girl was not into sharing, a zealous guardian of her toys and games, stuffed animals and many more which of course she never even played with. But when another child showed an interest in, say, one, tiny stuffed kangaroo, my darling snatched it away. I used to wonder if I should browbeat her into civility. Very often, I did not. Finally I sent her to a play school because I liked the name of the school ‘sun shine’. And of course Lauren loved it there for the toys and snack hour. I filled her snack box with healthy stuff she hated and forced her into giving and taking thereby mutating genes. Or a fixation of a selfless gene! Today, I’m so proud to know that she is called the kindest in her class, a just and selfless human in her play group and a rascal among bullies.

My daughters are no shrinking violets. What more can be so gratifying to a mother who kept aside everything to raise two girls to more than they could be. One evening, at the park I let my little one handle a brat for herself even though I had the urge to end anything or anybody who bothered my children. As I pretended to ignore her she just pushed him away a little harder and he fell. Then, I called out to her. Giving me her cherubic smile she poked him with her toe just to let him know what was on her mind. I shuddered. But in this world, especially in India where the powerful and crooked love to bang into people and knock their molars loose, my little one learnt her first lesson to strike back. And I didn’t intimidate her.

During story time, my daughters did all the talking. I don’t really care where from and how did the idea that men utter 7,000 words a day versus women’s 20,000 come from as long as I hear my daughters talk sense. An occasional low murmur is all they expected from me. When I tried reading children’s stories to them, often they interrupted saying,” I know this story. Animals and trees never talk. They can’t”. This certainly interested me and I thanked God for merry little souls who were natural raconteurs, always good for a couple of laughs and have grown better over the years. Making up new stories everyday was tough but today I’m an author. ‘Perfect Endings’ for children was a result of their complaints “I know this story”. However as a proud mama what I believe is this: if my daughters tell a story, they are the best storytellers. If they paint, they do receive accolades. No gallery or critic needs to sanction them. This is what I call “job satisfaction” with my job as a mother.

‘Food time’ that always seemed to be a ‘not so good’ tussle turned into fun time after Barbara appeared on the scene. So, just to make the little fussy eater eat, Lauren tuned herself to eat all that I called healthy. My daughters’ taste buds not only got used to my recipes but the fact that nothing satisfies their hunger as much as my food does make me very proud.

When both of them were in the right mood, I coerced them into believing that love can change almost anything for good. They believed that love is a boomerang and took it in their own style just right for their age. So beautiful was their transformation, from toddlers to girls and into the swag teens with ideas taking different shapes on strong foundations I laid. To them, as of now, love is peace. My girls are becoming known as the best peacemakers in their small circles.

I hate liars, especially ones who know the art better than I do. For so long I thought my girls never knew what a ‘lie’ was. If I have brought up two benevolent liars, then this world would definitely be a better place for them. Benevolent lies can also be ‘channels of peace’.

Remember, the mutation and fixation mentioned in the second paragraph. My children are still hell bent on convincing me that if we love someone they should be made happy even if our happiness is or isn’t closely tied to theirs. When they played games, they were willing to lose to benefit their friends, to avoid a quarrel or to establish peace that passeth all understanding. Trying to figure out if this attribute would help them in the future I still chew down my nails.

Much alike other kinds, my girls loved to shop. Not just for them but for their playmates too. Then, with a shallow pocket, it was really tough to fight back my urge to take up a job.

Just as my mother points out the trees I had climbed and the hedgerows where I had gathered wildflowers as a child, I remind my girls of their favorite places, people and things. When they respond appropriately, I know I’m playing the role of a mother very well, much to my surprise.

Whenever we went for a stroll, I yearned for the Venti- Boreas, Notos, Eurus and Zephyr. The winds ballooning their frocks out and whipping their hair into tangles was a wonderful sight I loved to watch with equal joy.

And as my angels make new friends, I take it on me to remind them of their first friendship and cherish old friends and memories. An indulgent mom! I’ll do it knowing that someday, somewhere my girls would learn to make time for friends, trust and rely on them and as grey haired women gather with all their friends and stockpiled memories.

As a three year old Barbara used to go around the house searching for her dad paying no heed to Lauren who tried to explain in all 3 languages she knew. The idea that papa is out to make money to feed and clothe her never was never convincing. In the process of letting her know the reason behind papa’s unavailability I learnt my valuable lesson- that for a company or a firm, I’m just a worker but to my children I’m an idol, sometimes god. I promised myself that my prime job would be to pay attention to every little detail of theirs and be available till they spread their wings and fly away. Today, as teens they talk their hearts out with nil inhibition about everything under the sun. It’s not long ago when my girls believed that my kiss helps wounds heal faster and holding my pinkie warded off bad dreams.

I’ve got something most other working women miss out as parents. If I wish to, I know I can make money. If I don’t get to visit another country in the next ten years, I hope there is always another chance. But these few precious years will swiftly go by. No titles can replace the times when my daughters hug me to say, “I love you”. No money can replace the times when they lean their head on me and fall asleep. My intuition that I’m not their best keyboard or dance teacher is always right but my children consider me their most special teacher because they enjoy learning with me than with anybody else. Their preference to choose me over their TT coach reflects not only their trust and confidence but assures me that I’ve not compromised on the factors that build trust. The various ways they flaunt me as the best mom who can cook, dance, sing, write, articulate well and is game for anything boosts my self-esteem. “Mother hen” as I’m often addressed by my mom, “Helicopter mom” as called by my friends, “cosseting grandkid” as my late grandmother admonished me, I don’t know what fits me right because different situations demand a different you. Ultimately, motherhood is an honour and a blessing.

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The Mother of Us All

by Elsa Joel

by Karla Gottlieb
A Discussion with Elsa Lycias Joel
January 2021

Over a perfectly simple and effortless chat, Karla Gottlieb discusses her book “The Mother of us all” with Elsa Lycias Joel. Impelled by Queen Nanny’s passion to oust the colonizers and free her people from slavery, bondage and cruelty, Ms. Gottlieb researched and published this book, a tribute and a lamp to light the way.  

  1. Mother of Us All is definitely a good read. An amalgamation of facts and interpretations really pays off. Of all the colonized countries, what made you choose Jamaica?

So really, Jamaica chose me – I was taking a Women’s Studies class in grad school, and I came across Queen Nanny in an article I was reading. It was only one paragraph, but I was hooked. I said to myself, this woman who changed the world – there are definitely plenty of books written about this important person. And when I went to research her – there was nothing. Just one treatise by the amazing Edward Kamau Braithwaite, dedicated to her and another National Hero. And I found some dissertations, poems, a novel, articles and historical documents, from 1725-1739. Even today, mine is the only book dedicated to her based on historical facts. 

It just so happens that Queen Nanny was from Jamaica. I would have written about her wherever she was from. But her greatness transcends her nationality. I love Jamaica, and am glad she is from there, and it’s exciting that Jamaica takes its rightful place in global history because of Queen Nanny. 

Queen Nanny is the only woman and only Maroon who is a National Hero of Jamaica. After Kamau Braithwaite wrote his treatise, she was named a National Hero in 1976. This is huge. 

2. Colonization is ruthless and unethical. Do you agree?

Yes, absolutely. Colonization – in the Indian subcontinent, Africa, Asia, the Americas, Australia and Ireland was brutal, and approximately 256 million people were killed in the name of “advanced societies” and Christianity. I believe this number is higher. Natural resources – including timber, oil, diamonds gold – were robbed, families torn apart, indigenous culture, language and religions were attempted to be eradicated. We have lost about 3,000 languages worldwide due to colonization.

There has been nothing else in our collective, global history that has been worse for people and the planet than colonization. It gave rise to slavery, genocide and countless brutal wars and environmental destruction.

3.  Stories of slavery, plunder and discrimination confirms that whites owe “the debt” to people of African descent. Can you as an author, a sensitive global citizen, suggest reparations?

Absolutely. Reparations would go a long way but they are not enough. We need to re-educate our youth – offer true Black History in our schools – and make little-known heroes known. Queen Nanny changed the face of the world yet she is not widely known, the way she should be. 

I would suggest reparations to anyone and any culture that has suffered at the hands of slavery, racism, genocide or discrimination in any form. Could be monetary, in the form of land, jobs, free education – Georgetown has made good strides in this direction, but all universities need to follow their lead. Georgetown has offered free education to descendants of the slaves the university sold to raise capital in the 1800s. But I believe it should be free to anyone whose ancestor was enslaved.

4. Maroon revolution under the leadership of an “ohemmaa” is a perfect example of women’s power even before feminism or female empowerment became the norm. Why shouldn’t all countries adopt Maroon history as part of  curriculum to engrave the idea of women as leaders/ saviours in young minds? Your thoughts.

This is a fabulous question. Why isn’t this history taught in our schools?? I ask this question over and over in the book. Why? Because the ruling body doesn’t want us to know that a powerful woman led an army of 500 and defeated 5,000 troops of the largest empire on earth. This is dangerous information. A woman – an African woman – who defeated the empire upon which the sun never sets. It was an insult beyond measure, and they deliberately squashed this information, still do. It is a challenge to patriarchy, to hegemony, to white supremacy, it is the worst kind of insult possible to this group. Just now people are starting to teach more books like this. There are thousands of stories of powerful women, people of color and women of color doing incredible things – we just need to make them into books and get them taught to our young people. Imagine being a young black girl and being taught the story of Queen Nanny while in elementary school – it’s like changing, empowering, revolutionary.

5. Did you know of Mr. Shashi Tharoor who said: “I know why the sun never sets on the British Empire: God wouldn’t trust an Englishman in the dark. in his book “An Era of Darkness: The British Empire in India.”

(Laughs out loud) On point. That is excellent! Oh yeah, I’ve heard a lot about him and his charisma as well.  Now, this book gets into my ‘must read’ list. 

6. The act of serving, nurturing and nourishing their ancestors and spirits is practiced by several cultures across the globe. Do the Maroons of today invoke Queen Nanny?

Absolutely!! Maroons of today pour rum on the ground to honor, celebrate and invoke Queen Nanny. She is a living ancestor. She is a source of power, not a dead hero. She and other ancestors are still with us in the Maroon towns. I attend a Maroon festival in Charles Town in June every year I can – people gather to give talks, dance, celebrate Maroon history. There is a lot of Nanny love going around at this festival. I love the way you say “serving, nurturing and nourishing the ancestors and spirits” – you couldn’t have described it better. You can speak to any Maroon – especially on the eastern side of the island – and they can tell you how Nanny is commemorated with white rum on the ground, through song, through dance, through stories…. So many ways

7. Are reparations politically feasible? What’s the most impressive thing about Georgetown that deserves global attention?

Yes. If we have money to fly to Mars, and to fund trillions for a military, we have money for reparations. In terms of being politically feasible – I don’t care. It’s economically feasible so just do it. But I would say talk to the descendants of the formerly enslaved, and ask them what form they would like the reparations in. Also include Chinese, Japanese and of course Native Americans. That is the worst travesty, what we have done attempting to take away their language, culture, religion, land, resources, lives.

As I said, Georgetown is a good start, but it’s only for descendants of enslaved people. It needs to be for anyone who is a descendant of any oppressed group. What Georgetown did is fantastic. But every college needs to follow suit. Either that or Biden passes a law and dedicates money so that people of any race and ethnicity can go to school for free. Money or land or jobs would be another good start too.

8. With a master strategist endowed with all powers to guide and guard them, why did the Maroons tolerate the wicked colonizers for 83 years?

Well…. Nanny, the master strategist, was active from approximately 1720 to 1739. Before that, the Maroons were not as organized. They never tolerated the wicked colonizers – not for a minute. They were fighting back, throughout. The first Maroons on the island were enslaved people who had free reign under Spanish rule – and when Britain invaded and kicked the Spanish out in 1655, the white Spaniards left and the Africans stayed, and became the nucleus for the Maroons. Their descendants, plus the Maroons who escaped plantations in droves from 1655-1739, made up the Maroons. There were two major Maroon settlements, one on the leeward (western) side of the island, the Cockpit country, and one on the windward (eastern) side. Queen Nanny came to rule the windward side, and Quao the leeward. They fought back always, raiding plantations and freeing enslaved people, tormenting and harassing the British to such a degree that they were “thorns in the side” of the British. It was so intense that the governor wrote to the King of England, saying that if the Maroons were not defeated, the British would lose the entire island to them. It was a drastic situation for the British at that time. 

Although the Maroons came from many countries in Africa, it was the Akan people (from modern day Ghana) who most always assumed leadership roles to oust the imperialists. 

9. “Traitors are more dangerous than enemies”. The history of colonialism talks about colonizers being able to pick and choose traitors by offering them goodies, jobs, and positions. Discuss Maroon traitors, before and during Nanny’s time. 

Juan Lubola, a traitor, was active around 1655 and a few years after. Queen Nanny was born around 1685, most believe in Africa, and came over around 1695. So they didn’t overlap. But there were traitors in Nanny’s time who were dealt with harshly. After the Maroons gained their independence in 1739, there was a terrible clause in their peace treaty – that they would return any escaped enslaved people back to their “owners”. I have not fully researched this, but it seems entirely at odds with them and their ways. Many Maroons gained their freedom by escaping the plantations, either slipping out quietly in 1s and 2s, or in full rebellion, 200-300 at a time, greatly increasing the Maroon numbers. Yes, traitors were offered goodies and jobs. During the Maroon wars, there were “Black Shots” who fought on the side of the British, against the Maroons. However, many of these people eventually became Maroons themselves, enticed by the words of the Maroons.

10. Does your work include information from hearsay too? I ask this because I understand you have visited Jamaica while researching Queen Nanny and interacted a lot with Maroons.  Just in case you’ve watched  Akwantu: the Journey, does it inspire you to further prove her life, walk the mountains, meet her “pickibo” (children) and maybe spot evidences of Nanny’s Pot and so on only to prove that the powers of Queen Nanny is the irrefutable truth.

I did visit Jamaica while researching Queen Nanny and later too. Interacting with Maroons helped me a lot to validate the information I already had with me. So, my work is highly accurate. I thoroughly researched all written records and oral histories. 

I’m yet to watch Akwantu. (Smiles). I will (nods)

The power of Queen Nanny is the irrefutable truth. I have seen and experienced so much magic living with and working with and interviewing so many Maroons, that I believe her spirit is still alive and influencing me and so many people who believe in her. I dream about her and the Maroons all the time – and I believe she allowed me to write this book so her story could be known. I know I am not Jamaican – I am not a Maroon – I am not even of African descent. But I tried to approach this incredible story of Nanny humbly, with great respect  and with great accuracy to her legacy. I want her story to be known in Jamaica and throughout the world. There is a novel written about Nanny that I have read several times and is brilliant. It’s called Nanny Town by Vic Reid. That book is a novel, but it feels like he is channeling Queen Nanny. There is a gorgeous poem entitled Nanny – A Poem for Voices – that is in the book. I had a chance – to meet the author. She went to Nanny Town (Moore Town) and was put into a trance and the poem is the result of that experience.

11. The queen who never wore a crown or sat on a throne but delivered her nation and people from plunderers and tyrants aka colonizers ought to be revered globally. What’s your take? Any plans for a sequel that would contain more information/facts?

She is a warrior queen. True she never sat on a throne or wore a crown (shrugs).  But she was most likely a descendant of royalty from the Akan people in modern day Ghana. She did indeed deliver her people from the monsters who killed, starved, enslaved and attempted to wipe out African people, just for their monetary gain. 

Yes, she ought to be revered globally! She sent her warriors to Haiti and trained them for 50 years – and helped them overthrow the French and take control of the island. This bankrupted Napoleon, and he sold the United States a huge amount of land in the Louisiana Purchase for pennies on the dollar so he could raise money to fight the Maroons in Haiti – he lost and the Haitians established the first free African republic in the New World.

This book contains only facts – and oral history which is based on fact with a little bit of exaggeration, told to me by Maroon leadership in modern times. But the rest is well documented. As for a sequel, sure! One for young children, one for older children, a screenplay that could be made into a film. I have written about Grandy Nanny only a little in 20 years, but every time I go to Jamaica I get asked to write more. Which I would love to do. If I could quit my job and dedicate myself again to this magical, powerful, brilliant woman who changed the world as we know it, I would do it in a heartbeat.

12. After reading your work I feel drawn towards the Blue and John Crow mountains, just to soak in the aura of the brave Maroons. Has anybody else told you the same?

Absolutely. Many people. And some have actually gone and done it! Although the Maroons are still protective of their secrets, they are very warm and welcoming. There are several festivals on the Windward and Leeward sides of the island that celebrate Maroon history – on the Windward side they have had these annual celebrations for more than 380 years. It’s a great time to go and breathe in the air and share in this incredible history. More people need to know about Maroon history and share it. At the Charlestown Maroon festival, people come from Surinam, Australia, the States and other places all over the world to participate in marronage that exist in so many countries.

13. Isn’t it time for the maroons to shed the colonial names, rename their towns and cities with pomp and fanfare and tell the world they take great pride in nothing but their heroes! Because toponyms are an integral component of the cultural identity of the natives and not of ferocious raiders…

I love it! Great idea. You know the Maroons speak Kromantie, an ancient form of Twi, the language of the Akan or Ashanti people of Ghana. It’s 400 years old, so a little different. But as you said, renaming is important – see how many countries in Africa have done it. I would be very interested in what the Maroons would have to say about this very interesting topic.

My purpose in writing this book is to share knowledge and empower people. I thank you for asking these great questions, and allowing me to share some information. There is much more to be learned. 

14. One line on Queen Nanny!

Queen Nanny is complex – and in many ways, a dichotomy – a nurturing mother figure, a ferocious freedom fighter, an incredible military strategist whose tactics were studied for the Vietnam war, and a role model and shining light for anyone who fights for justice. 

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By Avani Bansal

We all know of Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi – popularly called ‘Father of Our Nation’, but did you know that his wife – Kasturba Gandhi was a powerhouse, who gave it her all for India’s independence. 

Born in Porbandar on 11 April 1869, she was married at the age of 14 years, to Gandhiji who was only 13 years old then. They had four sons – Harilal, Manilal, Ramdas and Devdas, but she could not ever fully recover from the loss of her first son. 

She was not just a doting mother, a committed wife but was also instrumental in bringing women together for India’s independence movement. 

In 1904, when Gandhiji established the Phoenix Settlement near Durban, she involved herself fully with the day-to-day management of it. In 1913, she was arrested in South Africa, when she participated in the protests against ill treatment of Indians in South Africa. But even while in prison, she saw it as an opportunity to encourage women to learn how to read and write. She also impressed upon them the power of prayer, especially in the fight against oppression. 

A famous anecdote is that when Gandhiji was fighting for the rights of indigo farmers in Champaran, Bihar, on their return to India – Gandhiji was very concerned about the low turn- out of women in political meetings. He requested Kasturba ji to visit the women in the nearby villages to find out the reason. She met the women and realized that women in those villages were so poor that they often had only one sari amongst them, so only one of them could attend the meeting.

During the Satyagraha movement, in 1922, inspite of poor health, she continued to actively participate in the protests and was arrested several times for the same. While managing her children, who were young, she never underestimated the role of women in the freedom struggle. 

While some may think, that she only shadowed her husband, Gandhiji himself is said to have remarked that Kasturba ji was always an equal and did everything in her control to fight the fight. In 1939, she had to undergo solitary confinement for a month, when protesting in Rajkot, Gujarat. During the Quit India Movement of 1942, she along with other freedom fighters was arrested and kept in Aga Khan Palace in Pune. Her health greatly suffered during this time and in 1944, she had two massive heart attacks. She passed away on 22 February, 1944 at the age of 74 years. 

The Kasturba Gandhi National Memorial Trust was set up to help continue her work for the welfare of women and children.

Here is a salute to all the women who played an equal part in the freedom struggle, sometimes with unequal recognition. They proved to the world that India is ready not just for a political revolution but also for a social revolution as regards the upliftment of women. History will remember Kasturba ji, not just as a wife who supported her husband in the freedom struggle but as a trailblazer who through her own life – disrupted gender stereotypes, and laid the path for women’s equal participation in every sphere of political and national activity. Infact she is said to have donated all her jewellery, given by her mother-in law to the Congress party for funding the freedom struggle. 

May her struggle and life inspire young women all across India today to play a crucial role in shaping the destiny of our nation. 

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