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Dr Elsa Lycias Joel

(Names have been changed to protect identities)

‘Boys will be boys. They make mistakes’. What does this statement convey? That nobody should be held accountable for their sudden fetishes or perversions towards women? Come on, display some of that social consciousness that is bandied about so much in official and international speeches about how Indian women are revered as goddesses.

India may be booming but not for all women. Two of the country’s most serious challenges are how to address women’s safety and how to deliver speedy justice. 12 years ago, the whole world stood stunned. The victim was celebrated as Nirbhaya. How ridiculous to remember and address hapless victims with such titles! In reality, she would’ve gone through matchless pain and fear before she died a brutal death. By addressing victims with titles, who are we trying to comfort? People have come to realize the reality long ago. It was those perverts who were fearless to commit a crime of that intensity with a heinous intent. Around the time of the 2012 gang rape and murder, India recorded 24,923 rape cases, which is about 68.28 cases per day as per the National Crime Records Bureau. So, should India be proud or ashamed of the thousands of ‘Nirbhayas’? While it took years to punish the convicts, one walked out free and fearless with a new identity, a grant of 10,000 Rs and a sewing machine, only because he was a juvenile. Only after the rapist, the most brutal of all, got to walk free, the Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act was passed in 2015. Then, I knew violence against women would never end. There is a clear pattern to the way the minds of rapists have evolved in our country given the speed and manner in which amendments evolve and justice is delivered. Timely justice may not be a panacea for all injustice that plague us but it could be a precursor to other reforms. Nothing but the severity of the punishment will act as a deterrent.

The current rape crisis speaks of something even more worrisome – a society that is out of touch with its women. By all accounts, the Indian women never had it so good. Due to the generosity of a patriarchal society, they are all flush with problems, much more they can handle. Citizens’ protests that take various forms and shapes are indeed comforting. However, the fruits of women’s safety or liberation cannot be allowed to be negated by a societal system that is striking at the very root of the country’s well-being. Sensible recommendations that have been made by committees and well-meaning individuals will not deter crimes unless they are acted upon in due earnestness. Probably, salvaging the process of justice from tangles of state intimidation or political pressure is a herculean task by itself. At this juncture, I remember the Best Bakery case in which, for the first time, the apex court shifted the trial out of a state.

The fear of being violated is so strong, Indian women can taste it.  It is shameful that few public servants have the audacity to declare that public spaces are not meant to be the right places for the right kind of women at the wrong time. When did a seminar hall in a medical college turn unsafe for a trainee doctor? Was she inappropriately clothed? What a handful of political elite say is not different from what a convicted criminal says. Enough is enough. As long as naming and shaming the victim continues in addition to gracing them with unbefitting titles, violence against women in all forms will continue with a plight of pandemic proportions. We have had enough such horror stories of rape, torture and murder that should make the legislature and executive give serious thought rather than analyse the uniqueness of each violation. What clumsy legislation have we got? Should it take 40 years for the Parliament to pass The Criminal Law (Amendment) Act 2013 to amend the IPC to allow death penalty only in rape cases where the accompanying brutality leads to death or leaves the victim in a persistent vegetative state? Shrina R Shanbaug, an Indian nurse lay in a vegetative state for almost 42 years after she was sodomised and strangulated with metal chains in 1973. Are rape laws far from adequate or do they lack will power? Sohanlal Valmiki, the main sodomist must be caught and hanged, if he is alive, instead of celebrating Aruna for giving India a passive euthanasia law. In 1972, a 16-year-old girl Sheila was raped inside a police station by two policemen who were set free by the court just because the victim wasn’t injured. After 9 years, the anti-rape law was amended.  I have every reason to assume that those two men in uniform would have had a free run until the law was amended.

The Supreme Court’s verdict was based on the following three arguments:

  • Sheila did not vocally express her non-consent during the ordeal.
  • There was a lack of bruising on her body.
  • She was ‘habituated to sexual intercourse’ based on the two-finger-test

We have umpteen days and nights to reclaim. Decades away from Sheila and Shrina tragedy, the pertinent question we ought to ask ourselves is how far have we come? 

Preeti Singh, Vamika, Manika Debnath, Pranjali Singh, Kasifa and many more are not the only ones to have gone through such severe sexual assaults. ‘Nirbhaya Juvenile’ who assaulted 8-year-old was acquitted. How ridiculous! Rapists must be tarred with the same brush, no matter how old the victims are. What is mystifying is the fact that gang-raping of someone below 18 years of age is considered a heinous offence punishable by death whereas gang rape, torment and murder of an adult is not. Public outcry and protests can caution lawmakers against semantic hair-splitting on defining the nature of violence, warning that ‘certain criteria’ will remain a stumbling block in drafting a perfect statute with no loopholes. Complacency should never cost us more promising lives.  As for the law enforcement and investigative agencies, it is not too early to tell the real story of RG Kar Medical College and Hospital on August 9th.

Opinion Disclaimer: The opinions expressed are solely the author’s and do not reflect the opinions and beliefs of The Womb.

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By Radhika Barman

With the onset of social media, sexual abuse & online harassment is common thing now, but as if things couldn’t be worse for us women, men introduced Sulli Deals.

Imagine yourself waking up one morning only to discover you have been auctioned off on Social Media. No, not a historic tale on the Slave Trade of Imperialism, but a deplorable reality of Muslim women in India today. Sulli Deals is an online platform, app, and website that takes publicly available pictures of women and creates profiles, describing the women as “deals of the day”. The app pretends to offer men the chance to buy a “Sulli” – a disparaging slang term used by right-wing Hindu trolls for Muslim women. It isn’t a real sell, but a method of targeted attack on women via social media.

Several women whose details were shared on the app have taken to social media to call out the “perverts” and vowed to fight. Nevertheless, the experience has left women scarred. Women featured on the app were mostly journalists, activists, artists, and researchers. A few have since deleted their social media accounts and many others said they were afraid of further harassment.

Prominent journalist and activist Rana Ayyub, who has been at the receiving end of vicious sexualized trolling for her outspoken views, said that this was and is done “systemically” to target vocal Muslim women. The photos that were circulated and sexualized belonged not only to Indian Muslim women but Pakistani women as well. Previously, right-wing groups chose to create Twitter trends in support of a sexist Youtuber too, leaving the women in further discontent.

In May, a YouTube channel named ‘Liberal Doge Live’ ( Ritesh Jha ), live-streamed the photos of Muslim women on the festival of Eid with a virulent Hindi caption -“Today, we will stalk women with our eyes filled with lust.”
There have been similar accounts of disgusting comments and derogatory songs for Kashmiri women when Article 370, special semi-autonomous status to the former state of Jammu & Kashmir, was revoked. It’s a reflection on India’s broken justice system, a dilapidated law and order arrangement. This makes us question that if we are becoming the most unsafe country for women?

However, with much activism & outrage, the app was put down a few months back. With their perpetrators out in open for obvious reasons, it’s no surprise that it could emerge again, & it did.
Sulli Deals has now emerged itself as ” Bulli Deals”, and yet again started their devilish activities. It’s time we all be united regardless of religion & gender, & fight this fiendish atrocity. God forbid tomorrow it may be one of us, maybe your daughter too!

This is not the new year India was waiting to celebrate, lest Sulli Deals isn’t just misogyny but a religious hate crime too. Instead of writing a social media thesis of ‘101 ways women can protect themselves’ let’s switch to telling men not to harass.

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By Shikhar Gupta

In a recent report, it has been made very clear that the condition of women is extremely poor when it comes to protection against sexual offences. Almost every woman has faced the unpleasant experience of being stalked at least once in her life in India. It doesn’t matter at which stage you’re in your life, you might be a college student, a working professional, or a housewife, a huge number of women in India get stalked on a regular basis. The surprising fact is that most of the time, the perpetrators hang around in the neighborhood, outside offices, schools, or home etc. Due to the fear of being stalked, some women can’t even venture out alone in public.

However, with the advent of technology a new kind of stalking has come into existence where the stalker tries to constantly roam around the social media profiles of a woman. The online stalking is equally or sometimes even worse than the regular stalking because here the stalker has the access to the pictures and personal details of the woman and also has the power to download these pictures and misuse it for some inappropriate purposes, which can have severe consequences over a woman’s life.

 In India, stalking – physical or electronic via phone calls, text messages, or emails is a criminal offence. It is punishable with one to three years in jail. According to a report, “Whoever monitors the use by a person of the internet, email or any other form of electronic communication that results in a fear of violence, or interferes with the mental peace of such person, commits the offence of stalking.” 

Under IPC, protection has been provided to women under Section 354, Section 354D for sexual harassment and Section 509 IPC for using words or gestures to insult the modesty of a woman. Under Section 354 of the IPC, whoever assaults a woman knowing that it would outrage her modesty is liable to be punished under the law. Also, Section 66-C, 66-D and 67 of IT act deals with cyber stalking for which complaint can be filed in any police station or Cyber Police in any city.

However, still some women choose to ignore their stalkers instead of approaching the police, the reason being that it is usually because they are intimidated by the thought of approaching the police or feel that the police will not help.

But do you know there is an alternate remedy available to this problem? 

Filing a complaint online! Women who are being stalked can complain to the National Commission for Women (NCW) and the Commission will take the matter up with the police. Any woman, in any part of India, can file this complaint. The Commission asks the police to then expedite the investigation. In serious cases, the commission forms an inquiry committee, which makes a spot inquiry, examines witnesses, collects evidence, etc. The Commission also has powers to summon the accused, the witnesses and police records, to facilitate the inquiry. For details, visit this website. If a woman is being stalked in Delhi, she can call 1096. For women in the rest of India, the NCW can be contacted by calling 0111-23219750.

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