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A lot has been discussed and debated about the negative impacts of the Covid-19 pandemic on women but the contribution of women in fighting the pandemic has found very sparing mention. This is despite the fact that women health workers are the beating heart of every healthcare system which is aiding the recovery of Covid patients across the globe.

For several decades, women have played a vital role in the global healthcare workforce as nurses, midwives, community health workers and doctors. In some countries 90% of nurses are women. Although women are still less likely than men to reach senior positions in healthcare professions, recent data shows a trend reversal which ignites some confidence of rising gender parity in the Healthcare sector.

It is heartwarming to note that women represent close to 70% of the global healthcare workforce. Several studies estimate that women in health contribute 5% to global gross domestic product (GDP) (US$ 3 trillion) annually, out of which almost 50% is unrecognized and unpaid.

In 2017, almost half of all doctors in Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) countries were women. Thirteen OECD countries exceeded gender parity for doctors in 2017, including Slovenia (63.0%), the Lithuania (69.4%), Estonia (74.0%), and Latvia (74.3%). France (44.5%), Germany (46.6%), the United Kingdom (47.6%), and Sweden (48.0%) were nearing gender parity among physicians. However, women still only made up one in five (21.0%) doctors in Japan. Globally, women represent the majority of nurses and midwives. The Americas (86%), Europe (84%), and the Western Pacific (81%) are regions with the highest proportion of women among nurses.

In Canada, women dominate the health fields in Higher Education. In 2017, women made up more than 78.7% of post-secondary graduates in health and related fields. In the past four decades, women’s share of medical degrees has substantially increased. In contrast to 2017, when only 12% of women earned MD degrees in Canada, there has been a significant spike until 2018 with 54.5% of women achieving the same feat.

In India, women are responsible for 70-80% of all the healthcare services being provided. Women healthcare providers can play an important role in educating society to recognize their health and nutrition needs. Women professionals and empowerment of women at all levels are required for improvement of the health and nutrition structure in India.

In terms of Gender Career Satisfaction, on average, women in healthcare report high satisfaction with their careers (75 percent versus 71 percent of men). They find opportunities aligned with their passions and can adapt their careers over time. Women in healthcare tend to be more happier about their careers compared with men in the same field.

Largely, the gender gap in promotion rates in healthcare, unlike in many other industries, is narrowing. Both women and men report asking for raises at the same rates, but women in healthcare say they are slightly more successful in achieving positive outcomes. Women in healthcare reported receiving more of what they requested in compensation negotiations more often than what men did. Both women and men report asking for raises at the same rates, but women in healthcare say they are slightly more successful in achieving positive outcomes. Women in healthcare reported receiving more of what they requested in compensation negotiations more often than what men did.

According to a research done collaboratively by Lean In and McKinsey, healthcare appears to be one of the best industries for working women on several counts. A broad industry that includes drug and medical-device manufacturers, as well as service providers and payers, healthcare surpasses other industries in female representation.

On the flip side, it is an uncomfortable fact that health systems are currently subsidized by the unpaid work done by women and girls delivering care to family and others in their communities. If only women were able to participate in the economy equally, it would result in nearly an estimated $160 trillion increase in global GDP or a 21.7% increase in human capital wealth.

24 million of the 28.5 million nurses and midwives globally are women. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to be physicians and specialists than women. In addition, more men reach leadership positions, leaving women under-represented in senior, higher-paid roles. However, recent studies reveal an increasing participation of women in highly paid occupations in health, a trend likely to continue over the next 20 years.

The report “Delivered by women, led by men: A gender and equity analysis of the global health and social workforce”, co-produced by WHO and Women in Global Health, confirms that women health workers are concentrated into lower status, lower paid and often, unpaid roles, facing harsh realities of gender bias and harassment.

It is unfortunate that women lead only 19% of hospitals. When it comes to companies in the healthcare industry, women only hold 13% of CEO roles and 33% of senior leadership positions. However, despite all the roadblocks, some women have made to the top of the ladder with their talent, remarkable contributions and sustained efforts. Some noteworthy names include Emma Walmsley (CEO of GlaxoSmithKline and the first woman to lead a global pharma company), Gail K. Boudreaux (president and CEO of Anthem), and Laura N. Dietch (president and CEO of BioTrace). Frances H. Arnold, who in 2018 became the fifth woman to win the Nobel Prize in Chemistry is yet another example of women in healthcare who have gained worldwide recognition for her achievements. Women are the primary consumers and decision makers in the healthcare market, and they make up almost 50 percent of the workforce: much of their advancement and leadership in the field rests on those facts.

Since women work in the frontline in providing medical care and perform some of the risky jobs, they have an increased risk of contracting infectious diseases. In the United States, the Centers for Disease Control reports that, as of April 2020, 73% of healthcare professionals who tested positive for COVID-19 were women. Exposure to infectious diseases poses a high psychological burden for women healthcare workers. A study of healthcare settings in China during the COVID-19 outbreak found that women workers reported elevated levels of stress, anxiety, and depression.

Despite all the risks taken by women, disparity continues to pervade the industry when it comes to monetary compensation. Women in healthcare are paid Less, on average, than their male counterparts. Women physicians and surgeons made $0.67 to every $1 earned by their male counterparts in 2018. Women in healthcare support occupations, which include home health aides and nursing assistants, made $0.83 for every $1 their male counterparts made in 2018.

Gender equality needs to be looked at holistically in the healthcare sector – Policies, effectiveness of programs initiated by the government, and employee experiences must be taken into consideration to promote diversity and inclusion. While the trends clearly show that significant progress has been made over the last few decades, much remains to be done.

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Boris Johnson, Prime Minister of United Kingdom is all set to promote access to education for girls in Kenya, calling it “is one of the smartest investments we can make”.  Since his time as Foreign Secretary, Mr Johnson has argued that widening access for education for girls is a highly-effective way of driving development in some of world’s poorest countries, in places where girls had often been at risk of missing out on school. The PM will participate in a live study hall connect-up with schoolchildren in Kenya on march 13, 2021 to encourage world pioneers to put resources into training, supporting the UK’s aspiration to get 40 million additional young ladies into school in the following five years. 

He is scheduled to visit a school in the UK with Julia Gillard, previous Australian PM and Seat of the Worldwide Organization for Training, and address President Uhuru Kenyatta at a school in Nairobi as a component of the Associating Homerooms program. This visit comes ahead of the joint UK-Kenya Global Education Summit in London in July, which aims to raise $5 Billion over the next five years for the vial work of Global Partnership for Education (GPE).

The UK reports £55 million for another program to drive essential research into education reforms, , turbocharging endeavours to get young ladies into school and learning. The What Works Hub for Global Education will advise governments across Africa and Asia on the most impactful and financially savvy approaches to reform educational systems and support female enrolment. 

UK’s G7 Presidency has a key part in improving girl’s access to education and is at the heart of global efforts to build back better from the pandemic. Putting resources into schooling helps lift communities out of poverty and shields young girls from early marriage and forced labour. 

Prime Minister Johnson said: 

“Supporting girls to get 12 years of quality education is one of the smartest investments we can make as the world recovers from Covid-19. Otherwise we risk creating a lost pandemic generation. Across the world there is a vast untapped resource – girls whose education has been cut short or denied altogether, who could be leading efforts to pull their communities out of poverty. I’m going to be working throughout the UK’s G7 presidency to ensure leaders invest in those girls and boost children’s life chances around the world.”

Julia Gillard, Chair of the GPE, said: 

“COVID-19 has worsened the global education crisis and hit children in lower-income countries the hardest, with life-changing consequences for millions. Now, we are at a decisive junction. When the world builds back from the pandemic, ensuring that every girl and boy has the opportunity for a quality education is the single best investment we can make for a more sustainable, peaceful and resilient future.”

The Covid-19 pandemic has caused an unprecedented worldwide educational crisis, with 1.6 billion youngsters out of education all around the world at the height of school terminations. It has additionally intensified the hindrances to tutoring that young girls as of now face, including poverty, gender-based violence and child-marriage. 

The Global Education Summit this July, co-hosted by the United Kingdom and Kenya, is a critical opportunity to fully fund the Global Partnership for Education and help transform education systems to make them more equitable and effective.

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“They slipped briskly into an intimacy from which they never recovered” – F. Scott Fitzgerald

The Covid-19 pandemic and the lockdowns which followed thereafter, has essentially led to several partners being quarantined at home. While this has been a wonderful time for cohabiting couples to connect with each other, several questions have been raised with regards to the safety of this intimacy.

Veering between social distancing and close cohabitation, many thousands of couples are rediscovering each other as cities and towns across the country go into lockdown. However, with this increased intimacy, many pharmacies as well as e-commerce sites have reported rising sales of condoms and contraceptive pills. While social media is abuzz with jokes and memes, some experts are concerned about the impact this could have on the sexual and reproductive health of women. During the initial days of the pandemic, the spike in sales of condoms and contraceptives were attributed to hoarding, dispelling the myth that couples were getting more intimate. Eventually, there was a marginal dip in sales but the lack of free movement of goods globally, has led to severe shortage of condoms and contraceptives. There is a real risk and grave threat that some of the supply chains are going to be broken and that there might be more stockouts and shortages in the months ahead.

According to a recent report by United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA), the number of women unable to access contraception, experiencing unintended pregnancies and facing gender-based violence has skyrocketed as the COVID-19 pandemic continues.

“This new data shows the catastrophic impact that COVID-19 could soon have on women and girls globally,” Dr. Natalia Kanem, UNFPA Executive Director said in a press release. “The pandemic is deepening inequalities, and millions more women and girls now risk losing the ability to plan their families and protect their bodies and their health.”

The data released by UNFPA, the UN’s sexual and reproductive health agency, predicts that over 47 million women could lose access to contraception, resulting in 7 million unplanned pregnancies if the lockdown continues for six months.
The World Health Organization this month said two-thirds of 103 countries surveyed between mid-May and early July reported disruptions to family planning and contraception services.

Unintended pregnancies can occur among women of all incomes, educational levels, and ages. Negative outcomes associated with unintended pregnancy include delays in initiating prenatal care, reduced likelihood of breastfeeding and increased risk of maternal depression and parenting stress.
A surge in teen pregnancies was reported in Kenya, while some young women in Nairobi’s Kibera slum resorted to using broken glass, sticks and pens to try to abort pregnancies, said Diana Kihima with the Women Promotion Center. Two died of their injuries, while some can no longer conceive.
Due to limited availability of surgical abortion services, particularly in rural areas, and barriers on availability of medical abortion drugs at chemists, many women may be forced to resort to unsafe providers, risking their health and lives during the lockdown period.

In parts of West Africa, the provision of some contraceptives fell by nearly 50 percent compared to the same period last year, said the International Planned Parenthood Federation.
“I’ve never seen anything like this apart from countries in conflict,” said Diana Moreka, a coordinator of the MAMA Network that connects women and girls to care across 16 African countries. Calls have increased to their hotlines, including those launched since the pandemic began in Congo, Zambia and Cameroon. More than 20,000 women have called since January.

The Women’s Health forecast has published some alarming statistics: There has been a 10% drop in Reproductive Healthcare. 49 million more women do not access to contraception which could lead to 15 million more unintended pregnancies, 168000 more newborn deaths, 28,000 more maternal deaths and 3 million more unsafe abortions.

Family Planning efforts has been upended by the Coronavirus pandemic. Health experts fear irreparable harm has been done to India’s already struggling family planning efforts. Many women are no longer receiving potentially life-saving services that can help them make informed choices about delaying, preventing, and spacing pregnancies. V.S. Chandrashekar, Chief Executive Officer at the Foundation for Reproductive Health Services India (FRHS), said, “Live births may actually be higher since access to abortion is impacted during the lockdown. Women with unintended pregnancy may be forced to carry their pregnancy to term, since they may not have access to abortion care.”
In the Indian context, an analysis of HMIS data by Population Foundation of India shows that during the months of national lockdown last year between April and June, compared to the same period in 2019, there was a 27% drop in pregnant women receiving four or more ante-natal check-ups, a 28% decline in institutional deliveries and 22% decline in prenatal services.

The failure of the health system to cope with COVID-19 pandemic resulted in an increase in maternal deaths and stillbirths, according to a study published in The Lancet Global Health Journal. The impact on pregnancy outcomes high on poorer countries, says the study. Overall, there was a 28% increase in the odds of stillbirth, and the risk of mothers dying during pregnancy or childbirth increased by about one-third. There was also a rise in maternal depression, impacting the child’s health. COVID-19 impact on pregnancy outcomes was disproportionately high on poorer countries, according to the study published.

Many routine and elective services have already been postponed or suspended by both Government and private setups in most parts of the world because of the unprecedented pandemic of COVID-19. Healthcare systems everywhere in the world are under pressure. Being a component of essential health services, family planning and abortion services should continue to cater the population in order to prevent the complications arising from unintended pregnancies and sudden rise in STIs.

When health systems are overwhelmed, countries need to make difficult decisions to balance the demands of responding directly to COVID-19, while simultaneously engaging in strategic planning and coordinated action to maintain essential health service delivery. The provision of many services will become more challenging. Women’s choices and rights to sexual and reproductive health care, however, should be respected regardless of COVID-19 status.

While the lockdowns imposed across the globe due to the Covid-19 pandemic has caused immeasurable damage to mankind, the the differential impact it has had on the sexual and reproductive health of women needs immediate attention. The “Baby Boom” in the United States should be a gentle reminder of the potential problems which might arise if sufficient attention is not paid to the sexual and reproductive health of women. The coming year may well bring a baby boom few can afford, along with a dangerous increase in unsafe abortions. It’s high time the world took note and made necessary amends.

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(राजेश ओ.पी. सिंह)

आलोक धन्वा की पंक्तियां ” घर की ज़ंजीरें कितनी ज्यादा दिखाई पड़ती है, जब घर से कोई लड़की भागती है ” समाज में फ़ैल रही कुरीति पर प्रकाश डाल रही है।
भारतीय समाज में प्राचीन काल से ही सामाजिक कुरीतियों जैसे विधवा विवाह, बाल विवाह, सती प्रथा आदि में सुधार को लेकर लगातार प्रयास हो रहे हैं। आधुनिक समय में ये कुरीतियां नए रूप में सामने आ रही है, भारतीय समाज को पिछले हजारों वर्षों से जातियों के जंजाल ने जकड़ रखा है, कोई परिवार अपनी जाति के बाहर अपनी बेटी का ब्याह नहीं करना चाहता , परिणामस्वरूप लड़कियां घर से भाग कर ब्याह कर रही है, उसके बाद झूठी सामाजिक प्रतिष्ठा की वजह से ऑनर किलिंग जैसी घटनाएं दिन प्रतिदिन सामने आती रहती है। प्राचीन काल में जातियों से केवल निम्न जातियों के लोगों को नुक्सान हो रहा था, परंतु आधुनिक समय में इस कुप्रथा से हर जाति की लड़कियों को अपनी जान से हाथ धोना पड़ रहा है।
हमें ज़रूरत है जातियों के इन कठोर बंधनों को तोड़ने की ताकि लड़कियों को मजबूर ना होना पड़े घर की दीवारें और नियम तोड़ने को।
हरियाणा में जाति प्रथा ने बहुत लड़कियों की ज़िंदगी निगल ली है, बात हम हरियाणा के सिरसा जिले के एक गांव की करेंगे , जहां हाल ही के 2-3 वर्षो में दर्जन भर लड़कियां शादी के लिए घर से भाग निकली है, सबसे खास बात ये कि ये सभी लड़कियां दलित समुदाय से संबंध रखती है, सभी की उम्र 18-21 वर्ष के बीच की है, सभी लड़कियों ने लगभग कक्षा बाहरवी तक पढ़ाई भी करी है, सभी लड़कियों में एक समान पैटर्न देखने को मिला है, जबकि सभी लड़के अलग अलग जगहों से है, जो आपस में एक दूसरे को जानते भी नहीं ,परंतु फिर भी एक प्रथा सी चल निकली है ।

इन लड़कियों का क्या भविष्य रहेगा ये हम अच्छी तरह से सोच सकते है, सुनने में आया है की एक लड़की जो 2018 के जून माह में घर से भागी थी उसको उस लड़के ने आगे कहीं बेच दिया है, अन्य एक लड़की के बारे में पता चला है कि उसको उसके पति ने छोड़ दिया है अब वो किसी अन्य पुरुष के संग अपना जीवन व्यतीत कर रही है, एक लड़की को ढूंढ कर घर लाया गया ,जहां उसकी शादी कहीं दूसरी जगह पर कर दी गई, परन्तु वो लड़की आज अपने ससुराल में नहीं रह रही, उसकी अपने पति के साथ कई दफा लड़ाई हो चुकी है जिस वजह से वो अब अपने मां बाप के घर रह रही है, उस लड़की को समाज के लोग अच्छी निगाहों से नहीं देखते, सभी को लगता है कि इसकी खुद की गलती है। ऐसी अनेकों बाते सामने आ रही है।
परन्तु पूरे गांव में कोई भी व्यक्ति इस कुप्रथा पर बोलने को तैयार नहीं, सभी का कहना है कि जिसको भागना है वो भागेगी, उसे कोई रोक नहीं सकता।
परन्तु सोचने का विषय ये है कि ये लड़कियां घर से भाग क्यों रही हैं?
क्यों एक बेटी अपने पिता के प्यार को, दादी के दुलार को, भाई के रिश्ते को, मां की ममता को सब कुछ दांव पर लगा देती है और चुन लेती है प्रेमी के प्रेम को?

हमनें देखा कि इस गांव से जितनी लड़कियां भागी है उन सभी के घर बहुत छोटे छोटे है, बहुत ही ज्यादा गरीबी से जूझ रहे हैं , इन लड़कियों के परिवार सुबह से शाम तक मजदूरी करते है ,लगभग सभी लड़कियों के पिता शराब का सेवन करते है जिस वजह से हर एक दो दिन बाद घर में परिवारिक क्लेश होता रहता है और सारा दिन काम के लिए घर से बाहर होने की वजह से , और शाम को शराब पीने की वजह से अपने बच्चों की तरफ खास ध्यान नहीं दे पाते, थकान और नशे की वजह से उन्हें रात को चारपाई पर लेटते ही नींद आ जाती है और अगली सुबह फिर वही प्रक्रिया, काम को जाना, शाम को आना, ऐसे माहौल में लड़कियां इस गरीबी, इस माहौल से आजाद होने के लिए ऐसे कदम उठा रही है।
दूसरा दलित समुदाय में भी जातियों का पदसोपनिक ढांचा है, हर जाति एक दूसरे के उपर है , एक दलित भी अपनी जाति के अलावा अन्य दूसरी दलित जाति के साथ रिश्ता नहीं जोड़ना चाहता ,इस वजह से भी ये कुप्रथा फैल रही है।
लड़कियों के इस कदम से उनको खुद को ,उनके परिवार के साथ साथ उनकी छोटी बहनों को नुक्सान हो रहा है, सबसे प्रथम तो उनकी बहनों को भी लोग आसान टारगेट मानते है और सोचते है कि ये लड़की भी अपनी बहन की तरह होएगी।
दूसरा इन छोटी बहनों को स्कूल से हटा लिया जाता है, परिवार में एक भय पैदा हो जाता है कि कहीं ये भी वैसा कदम ना उठा ले, उनकी छोटी उम्र में शादी कर दी जाती है, लगभग लड़कियां नाबालिग होती है, इन नाबालिग लड़कियों की शादी पर ना तो समाज कुछ बोलता है ना ही गांव के लोग, सभी को लगता है कि इनकी शादी करना ही सबसे उचित कार्य है यदि शादी नहीं करी तो ये लड़कियां खुद शादी कर लेगी, इन 15-16 वर्ष की नाबालिग लड़कियों को शादी के बाद अनेकों स्वास्थ्य संबंधी समस्याओं का सामना करना पड़ता,शादी की उम्र होने तक ये 2-3 बच्चों कि मां बन जाती है,और बच्चों को पालने के लिए फिर से इनके जीवन की वहीं प्रक्रिया शुरू हो जाती है जो इनके मां बाप की होती है ये एक निरंतर चलने वाली क्रिया है और इसने ऐसी अनेकों लड़कियों के जीवन को निगल लिया है। इसी गांव में वर्ष 2019 में एक लड़की अपनी शादी के दो दिन पहले जब शादी की सरी तैयारियां हो चुकी थी घर से भाग निकली, तो घर वालों ने उसकी छोटी बहन जो कक्षा नौवीं में पढ़ाई कर रही थी, महज 15 वर्ष की थी, की शादी उस लड़के से कर दी, कुछ दिन पश्चात वो लड़की जो घर से भागी थी को उस लड़के ने छोड़ दिया वो वापिस अपने घर आ गई, अब दोनों बहनों की ज़िन्दगी बर्बाद हो गई।
समाज के बुद्धिजीवियों को इस बारे में जागरूकता अभियान चलाने की ज़रूरत है, जो लड़कियों के मां बाप को जातियों के बारे में सचेत करे, और उन्हें अपने बच्चों के साथ समय बिताने के लिए प्रेरित करें। घर में सकारात्मक माहौल कैसे बना रहे के बारे में भी जागरुक किया जाए।
और इसके साथ साथ स्कूलों में पढ़ रही लड़कियों को इस कुप्रथा के बारे में जागरूक करे और उन्हें पढ़ाई की तरफ आकर्षित करें ताकि वो बेहतर शिक्षा प्राप्त कर सके और अपना व अपने परिवार का जीवनस्तर सुधार सके।
हमें लड़कियों को बताना होगा कि वे वो भाग्यशाली 5-7 प्रतिशत लड़कियां हो , जो कक्षा 11 या 12 तक पहुंच पाती है, हमें उन्हें उच्च शिक्षा के लिए प्रेरित करने कि ज़रूरत है और उच्च शिक्षा के लिए पर्याप्त माहौल और संसाधनों को उपलब्ध करवाने की ज़रूरत है।
ताकि इन लड़कियों को और इनकी आगे आने वाली पीढ़ियों को सुधारा जा सके और इस कुप्रथा को खत्म किया जा सके और समाज में एक सकारात्मक माहौल पैदा किया जा सके।

हौव्वा नहीं होती घर से भागी हुई लड़कियां,
चाहती नहीं भागना लड़की,
डरती है रस्मों रिवाजों से,
सोई नहीं बरसों से, जागती सोचती हैं
एक लम्बी नींद को हर वक्त।

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By Dr. Elsa Lycias Joel

One day I decided to keep aside so many things that mattered a lot to me. This was no small step for me, a free-spirited woman. Somehow I was made to believe that I’m ‘Born Free’ because it was from Joy Adamson’s that my father picked my name. A state level TT player, classical dancer, handful of extracurricular activities, NCC camps, rough and tough cousins, stint with a National daily- all these and more convinced me I was self made to rise and shine, go far and wide. Two little girls changed my course of life. Today I’m a humble stay-at-home mother, for the reason that parenthood began on a good note. I love girls, wanted girls and my wish came true.

Turning back the clock I remember…

My little girl was not into sharing, a zealous guardian of her toys and games, stuffed animals and many more which of course she never even played with. But when another child showed an interest in, say, one, tiny stuffed kangaroo, my darling snatched it away. I used to wonder if I should browbeat her into civility. Very often, I did not. Finally I sent her to a play school because I liked the name of the school ‘sun shine’. And of course Lauren loved it there for the toys and snack hour. I filled her snack box with healthy stuff she hated and forced her into giving and taking thereby mutating genes. Or a fixation of a selfless gene! Today, I’m so proud to know that she is called the kindest in her class, a just and selfless human in her play group and a rascal among bullies.

My daughters are no shrinking violets. What more can be so gratifying to a mother who kept aside everything to raise two girls to more than they could be. One evening, at the park I let my little one handle a brat for herself even though I had the urge to end anything or anybody who bothered my children. As I pretended to ignore her she just pushed him away a little harder and he fell. Then, I called out to her. Giving me her cherubic smile she poked him with her toe just to let him know what was on her mind. I shuddered. But in this world, especially in India where the powerful and crooked love to bang into people and knock their molars loose, my little one learnt her first lesson to strike back. And I didn’t intimidate her.

During story time, my daughters did all the talking. I don’t really care where from and how did the idea that men utter 7,000 words a day versus women’s 20,000 come from as long as I hear my daughters talk sense. An occasional low murmur is all they expected from me. When I tried reading children’s stories to them, often they interrupted saying,” I know this story. Animals and trees never talk. They can’t”. This certainly interested me and I thanked God for merry little souls who were natural raconteurs, always good for a couple of laughs and have grown better over the years. Making up new stories everyday was tough but today I’m an author. ‘Perfect Endings’ for children was a result of their complaints “I know this story”. However as a proud mama what I believe is this: if my daughters tell a story, they are the best storytellers. If they paint, they do receive accolades. No gallery or critic needs to sanction them. This is what I call “job satisfaction” with my job as a mother.

‘Food time’ that always seemed to be a ‘not so good’ tussle turned into fun time after Barbara appeared on the scene. So, just to make the little fussy eater eat, Lauren tuned herself to eat all that I called healthy. My daughters’ taste buds not only got used to my recipes but the fact that nothing satisfies their hunger as much as my food does make me very proud.

When both of them were in the right mood, I coerced them into believing that love can change almost anything for good. They believed that love is a boomerang and took it in their own style just right for their age. So beautiful was their transformation, from toddlers to girls and into the swag teens with ideas taking different shapes on strong foundations I laid. To them, as of now, love is peace. My girls are becoming known as the best peacemakers in their small circles.

I hate liars, especially ones who know the art better than I do. For so long I thought my girls never knew what a ‘lie’ was. If I have brought up two benevolent liars, then this world would definitely be a better place for them. Benevolent lies can also be ‘channels of peace’.

Remember, the mutation and fixation mentioned in the second paragraph. My children are still hell bent on convincing me that if we love someone they should be made happy even if our happiness is or isn’t closely tied to theirs. When they played games, they were willing to lose to benefit their friends, to avoid a quarrel or to establish peace that passeth all understanding. Trying to figure out if this attribute would help them in the future I still chew down my nails.

Much alike other kinds, my girls loved to shop. Not just for them but for their playmates too. Then, with a shallow pocket, it was really tough to fight back my urge to take up a job.

Just as my mother points out the trees I had climbed and the hedgerows where I had gathered wildflowers as a child, I remind my girls of their favorite places, people and things. When they respond appropriately, I know I’m playing the role of a mother very well, much to my surprise.

Whenever we went for a stroll, I yearned for the Venti- Boreas, Notos, Eurus and Zephyr. The winds ballooning their frocks out and whipping their hair into tangles was a wonderful sight I loved to watch with equal joy.

And as my angels make new friends, I take it on me to remind them of their first friendship and cherish old friends and memories. An indulgent mom! I’ll do it knowing that someday, somewhere my girls would learn to make time for friends, trust and rely on them and as grey haired women gather with all their friends and stockpiled memories.

As a three year old Barbara used to go around the house searching for her dad paying no heed to Lauren who tried to explain in all 3 languages she knew. The idea that papa is out to make money to feed and clothe her never was never convincing. In the process of letting her know the reason behind papa’s unavailability I learnt my valuable lesson- that for a company or a firm, I’m just a worker but to my children I’m an idol, sometimes god. I promised myself that my prime job would be to pay attention to every little detail of theirs and be available till they spread their wings and fly away. Today, as teens they talk their hearts out with nil inhibition about everything under the sun. It’s not long ago when my girls believed that my kiss helps wounds heal faster and holding my pinkie warded off bad dreams.

I’ve got something most other working women miss out as parents. If I wish to, I know I can make money. If I don’t get to visit another country in the next ten years, I hope there is always another chance. But these few precious years will swiftly go by. No titles can replace the times when my daughters hug me to say, “I love you”. No money can replace the times when they lean their head on me and fall asleep. My intuition that I’m not their best keyboard or dance teacher is always right but my children consider me their most special teacher because they enjoy learning with me than with anybody else. Their preference to choose me over their TT coach reflects not only their trust and confidence but assures me that I’ve not compromised on the factors that build trust. The various ways they flaunt me as the best mom who can cook, dance, sing, write, articulate well and is game for anything boosts my self-esteem. “Mother hen” as I’m often addressed by my mom, “Helicopter mom” as called by my friends, “cosseting grandkid” as my late grandmother admonished me, I don’t know what fits me right because different situations demand a different you. Ultimately, motherhood is an honour and a blessing.

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A woman has died in me

A woman of disease with a lack of peace.

An animal who would toil and ask nothing

A dried leaf who would flutter and flinch.

A victim of sex, an object of jest

Who would only moan at her best.

A giver of life, a dutiful wife

For the treacherous world; alas! so naïve.

No, it’s not death, but a murder

A phoenix reborn, you could shudder.

A cool shade for you to rest

With all respect and no more jest.

A spring of love for you to thrive

Together we grow, take a long flight.

A place of trust and compassion, for you to fall apart

Together we are complete, and broken, when kept apart.

I am a woman of strength you can’t barge

I refuse to be dumb, I now take charge.

PARWAAZ

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The imact of the Covid-19 pandemic has not been gender neutral. There has been a differential impact on women, which is cause of serious concern. Emerging data and reports from those on the front lines, have shown that women and girls have been subjugated to all types of violence, especially domestic violence.

If one were to wade through the annals of history, it is noticeable that violence against women tends to increase in any emergency, including epidemics. Immense stress, disruption of social and protective networks, economic vulnerability and dwindling access to services can exacerbate the risk of women being susceptible to violence.

Understandably Covid-19 has dominated the world’s agenda. Especially in the case of COVID-19, prolonged isolation, restricted physical movement and work-from-home measures to contain the spread of the virus have a particularly acute impact on women. The risk of women and their children being exposed to violence has dramatically increased as members of the family spend more time in close contact. Household stress intensifies, and the risk grows even greater when families also have to cope with potential economic uncertainty or job losses.

Closures of schools and child care facilities have increased the burden on parents, especially women. Distance learning or virtual classrooms often requires the supervision of parents or caretakers. Despite the penetration of internet globally, some families still don’t have access to a reliable internet connection, and childcare obligations may fall on friends, neighbors, or family members while parents work or are in search for work. Some occupations are considered essential and physical presence at work is mandatory while others have the freedom to work virtually. The cumulative stress of balancing work, child care, and children’s education has led to a rise in child abuse. Teachers, child care providers, and clinicians are having fewer interactions with children and families which is significantly reducing the opportunity to assess or recognize any signs of child abuse.

“Before the pandemic, 1 in 3 women would already experience gender-based violence in their lifetime. However, the COVID-19 pandemic has exacerbated this already critical issue”, cites an extremely concerned Melissa Alvarado, UN Women Specialist.

A staggering increase in the number of cases of domestic violence have been reported globally including the developed world. Several reports suggest that cases of domestic violence have tripled in countries like France, Cyprus and Singapore. In France, police reported a nationwide spike of about 30 percent in domestic violence. Christophe Castaner, the French interior minister, said he had asked officers to be on the lookout for abuse.

The Eastern Mediterranean Region has the second highest prevalence of violence against women (37%) worldwide. This is due to structural systems that maintain gender inequalities at different levels of society, compounded by political crises and socioeconomic instability in the region. The Covid-19 pandemic has only aggrevated the situation.

In India, where domestic violence has been a perennial problem, there has been a sharp rise in cases ever since the stringent lockdown was announced by the government. National Commission for Women’s (NCW) data showed that domestic violence complaints doubled after the nationwide lockdown was imposed in India. Tamil Nadu Police have reported an increase in domestic violence complaints. They received approximately 25 calls every day during the lockdown period and registered at least 40 such cases. Similarly, Bangalore Police reported a spike in complaints from 10 calls to 25 calls every day from the victims of domestic violence.

In Spain, the emergency number for domestic violence received 18 percent more calls in the first two weeks of lockdown than in the same period a month earlier.

Around 42% of the Australian practitioners noted an increase in first-time family violence reporting by women.

Mahase reported a 60% increase in emergency calls related to violence against women by their intimate partners in Europe.

Similarly, Agüero (2020) found a 48% increase in helpline calls related to domestic violence in Peru.

In China, a Beijing-based NGO dedicated to combating violence against women, Equality, witnessed a a sudden surge in calls to its helpline, when the government locked down cities in Hubei Province, which was the epicenter of the pandemic outbreak.

A study on Ethiopian women found that almost one in four women experienced any form of domestic violence during the COVID-19 pandemic. Housewives aged less than 30 years, and with arrange marriage were at greater odds of experiencing domestic violence

At the heart of it, domestic violence has always been about power and control. Home isolation, however quintessential to prevent the spread of the virus, is giving still more power to the abuser. The isolation has also shattered support networks, making it far more strenuous and sometimes even impossible for victims to get help or escape. Sexual harassment and other forms of violence against women continue to occur on streets, in public spaces and online. Survivors have limited information and awareness about available services and limited access to the much needed support services.

In some countries, resources and efforts have been diverted from violence against women response to immediate COVID-19 relief, thus compounding the problem.

One interesting study reveals that the stricter the lockdown, the greater the risks of domestic violence. The most stringent lockdown was enforced in South Africa. Amongst other bans, liqour and cigarettes were strictly banned during the country-wide lockdown. One study claims that this has adversely affected the mental health of men and the incidences of domestic violence has increased significantly in South Africa. The magnitute of the problem is so significant that women are having to leave their homes along with their children to nearby shelter homes and distress centers. However, the fear of getting infected with the Covid-19 virus at these centers is dissuading others to tolerate the abuse and abuser at home.

Some advocates have raised concerns about a potential increase in intimate partner violence (IPV) ever since people were confined to their homes and personal movement was limited. Stay-at-home orders, even though rightly intended to protect the public and prevent widespread infection, has left many IPV victims trapped with their abusers. One in 4 women and one in 10 men experience IPV, and violence can take various forms: it can be physical, emotional, sexual, or psychological. Studies show that people of all races, cultures, genders, sexual orientations, socioeconomic classes, and religions experience IPV.

A Glimmer of Hope:

Not all seems to be lost though. Women are being creative about how they seek support. In some places women are going to Pharmacies and grocery stores to reach out for help. In some countries they are setting up pop-up crisis centers at pharmacies and grocery stores to help women subject to harrassment reach out for the much needed help. This is especially helpful when the abuser has confiscated the victims’ phone and other forms of communication are not accessible.

UN Women, the United Nations entity dedicated to gender equality and the empowerment of women, has launched the Shadow Pandemic public awareness campaign, focusing on the global increase in domestic violence amid the COVID-19 health crisis.

The French Government has allocated 20,000 hotel rooms for abused women. Additional Control rooms have been setup by the French Police to distress calls.

Dr. Kemi DaSilvaIbru, a qualified physician with more than 15 years of experience in private practice, dedicates her time to addressing the needs of girls and women. Her unmitigated passion for women’s rights and protection led her to found Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF) in Nigeria. The foundation addresses the prevalence of rape and gender-based violence through intervention and treatment for girls and women and by providing effective educational and community-based initiatives. She has been helping women and children who have been subjected to physical and sexual abuse during the pandemic.

Community gatekeepers who are at the forefront of rescuing abused women and children opine that the perpetrators get moved to the shed instead of the survivor. This indeed is a wise suggestion. Why should the abused person bear the brunt of shifting to a different location while the abuser gets away with the crime.

Despite all these praiseworthy initiatives during these precarious times, women subject to domestic violence are trapped at home with their abusers and the perpetrators are at a ear-shock distance. Phones and other assets of the victims have been confiscated making it very hard for them to seek support or help. The abusers are using the stringent lockdowns as an excuse to prevent their victims from moving out of their homes.

Ironically, since the pandemic erupted, it is heartwrenching to know that home is no longer the safe place for women, the true homemakers.

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Shivangi Sharma (for The Womb) in Conversation with Sania Rehmani, the ideation head of Sex Education India. Sania joined us to talk about the organization and how they are bringing change by asking one uncomfortable question at a time. 

As the second most populated country in the world, we surely do not live upto the expectations of our citizens’ sexual well-being. Our children grow up in the blissful ignorance of sex education only to gain the wrong knowledge from dangerous sources. As a country while we agitate when we hear any instances of sexual offence, our understanding of it is so crooked that we don’t even acknowledge sexual crimes that happen right under our noses, committed by the very people we live with. Apart from sexual offences, there are several other social concerns that exist simply because our society is too conservative to talk about them. Topics like relationships, intimacy, physical and emotional growth during puberty, consent, gender norms, sexual orientation and many more that are essential part of a human being’s life are neglected in our growth years. The one subject that covers all of this is Sex-education. It is a topic that hits right at home for millennials who grew up knowing the importance of sex-ed, only to be deprived of it. But Gen-Z here has taken upon itself to deal with this head-on. Not only are they actively working on spreading awareness on importance of sex-ed, they are demanding the administration to wake up to their responsibilities and teach the subject, not just in a tokenistic manner but in a comprehensive and inclusive sense. The Womb had the opportunity to talk to one such proactive Gen-Z organization. Mincing no words, they are called Sex-Education for India who are aiming to normalize sex education and prioritize the need to teach consent in educational institutions.

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The Covid-19 pandemic is disproportionately affecting women and leaving them far behind when compared to their male counterparts. The massive gains made in the last few decades in upliftment of women and gender equality is now being neutralised by the pandemic.

The continued global lockdowns and the ensuing layoffs by several companies big and small is pushing women back into traditional roles. ILO has estimated that full or partial lockdown measures now affect almost 2.7 billion workers, representing around 81% of the world’s workforce, while the IMF projects a significant contraction of global output in 2020. COVID-19 is lurching the world

economy towards a global recession, which will be strikingly different from past recessions.

Emerging evidence on the impact of COVID-19 suggests that women’s economic and productive lives will be affected disproportionately and differently from men. Across the globe, women earn less, save less, hold less secure jobs, are more likely to be employed in the informal sector. They have less access to social protections and are the majority of single-parent households. Their capacity to absorb economic shocks is therefore less than that of men.

Women spend 3x as many hours as men in unpaid care and domestic work, limiting their access to decent work. More men between the ages of 25 to 54 are in the labor force than women. The global gender gap is stuck at 16% with women paid up to 35% less than men in some countries. Since women are paid lesser than their male counterparts, family compulsions are making women quit their jobs to run the households while men find it more prudent to cling on to theirs.

740 million women globally work in the informal economy. They have been augmenting the family income and are more vulnerable to losing their jobs. Studies reveal that Women aged 25 to 34 globally are 25% more likely than men to live in extreme poverty

As women take on greater care demands at home, their jobs will also be disproportionately affected by cuts and lay-offs. Such impacts risk rolling back the already fragile gains made in female labor force participation, limiting women’s ability to support themselves and their families, especially for female-headed households.

Women spent more than twice as much time as men on their children’s home schooling and development during the UK’s coronavirus lockdown, according to the first academic study to measure how parents responded while schools and nurseries were closed to most families. The surveys conducted by researchers at University College London (UCL) found that women across several age groups bore the brunt of childcare and home schooling, while those with primary school-aged children “were considerably more likely” to have given up working than fathers with children of the same age.

Among parents of primary school-aged children, mothers spent on average five hours each day on home schooling, while fathers spent just two hours each day. Women were also spending more than three hours a day on developmental activities – such as doing puzzles, reading or playing games – compared with just under two hours a day for fathers,the researchers at UCL’s Centre for Longitudinal Studies concluded.

From past experience and emerging data, it is possible to project that the impacts of the COVID-19 global recession will result in a prolonged dip in women’s incomes and labor force participation, with compounded impacts for women already living in poverty. For those who, as a result of recent economic growth managed to escape from extreme poverty, they are likely to fall back into this most vulnerable of situations once again.

COVID-19 is not only a challenge for global healthcare systems, but also a test of our indomitable human spirit. The challenge however is that recovery must lead to a more equal world that is more resilient to future crises. Fiscal stimulus packages and emergency measures need to address public health gaps to mitigate the impacts of COVID-19. It is crucial that all policy decisions should place women and girls, their inclusive representation, their rights, social and economic outcomes, equality and protection at their centre if they are to have the intended impacts.

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